I read somewhere if she talks about other guys to you that means it's a no go? Is that true? She sometimes talks about a guy being super hot or muscular or he looks like a celebrity. Is she trying to make me jealous or something?
Always pay. plus every other corny gentlemen thing you can think of. Even the taking off your jacket to cover the puddle thing. Jk.
(12-04-2009, 09:12 PM)n4q Wrote: [ -> ]I read somewhere if she talks about other guys to you that means it's a no go? Is that true? She sometimes talks about a guy being super hot or muscular or he looks like a celebrity. Is she trying to make me jealous or something?
Sometimes it just means they are smart, testing your reactions.
Honestly, people saying others of the opposite sex is good for a relationship between mature people / a mature relationship. I remember how most of my relationships were in high school...not mature at all. However, me and my wife can say "oh she's hot" or "oh he's cute" and it doesn't effect the other. Flirting is one thing, but even that can be innocent at times.
So how should I start the conversation of asking her out to the movies?
Hi
Hey
Want to go to the movies?
Yes/No
^ The above is terrible
(12-05-2009, 07:20 AM)n4q Wrote: [ -> ]So how should I start the conversation of asking her out to the movies?
Hi
Hey
Want to go to the movies?
Yes/No
^ The above is terrible
Just go:
Hey, what you doing Friday?
*She says nothing*
Oh cool, wanna see something at the movies?
*Shes says yes*
Great! See you there then.
(12-05-2009, 07:29 AM)trilobyte- Wrote: [ -> ]Just go:
Hey, what you doing Friday?
*She says nothing*
Oh cool, wanna see something at the movies?
*Shes says yes*
Great! See you there then.
Yeah, but how do I add like where, what time etc. I don't want to be very pushy and ask her online and be like "You know that movie on friday, what time and where?" Or do I just add the time and place in the conversation, and what if she forgets do I talk to her online and be like DON'T FORGET!
(12-05-2009, 07:31 AM)n4q Wrote: [ -> ]Yeah, but how do I add like where, what time etc. I don't want to be very pushy and ask her online and be like "You know that movie on friday, what time and where?" Or do I just add the time and place in the conversation, and what if she forgets do I talk to her online and be like DON'T FORGET!
Don't be over cocky and say the time and date straight away, if she's interested then she'll ask. If she doesn't feel the same, she won't remember and you'll know that she doesn't.
What if she remembers, but she doesn't feel the need to remind me and I think she doesn't want to go so she's there and I'm not. I should like tell her the day before the "date" ?
(12-05-2009, 07:36 AM)n4q Wrote: [ -> ]What if she remembers, but she doesn't feel the need to remind me and I think she doesn't want to go so she's there and I'm not. I should like tell her the day before the "date" ?
If you are to do it, make sure to do it subtley, don't just go "OMG SO MOVIES TOMMOROW YEAH!?", but more like "So, we still on for tommorow?"