i need help.

[WTC]

Let me start by saying, You made it 25 years in a marriage, I'm sure there shouldn't be anything you and your wife
should not be able to overcome.But like in all relationships/marriages there are always issues/problems that upraise..
You stated bringing your mother into your house has cause marriage problems, Maybe because all the attention has been heading towards
your mother? I do understand she has alot of health issues but you also have a family you have to attend to. Your wife telling you she
felt attracted to another man was maybe a sign for you to realize that she feels she has lost her appreciation. Because think about it..
why would she tell you this? when she could have clearly got away with having an affair at her work place. She's just showing you the signs
of the feelings she felt are not there anymore. Again I will say I know your mother needs to be taken care of but there are many alternatives
to helping your mother Like as in getting a home attendant for her, they're free well basically insurance covers them especially at her age.
She would qualified no matter the circumstances. As for your wife, I don't think she has turn any switch off..I mean she still with you isn't she?
How about talking to your wife about some changes you both can come to an agreement on? I think that would be a good start.
Some changes can be good for the best as long as it starts with you. Show her how much you love her & how much your family means to you.
These are just some thoughts & advice I think would work. All though I am half your age and not married. I wish you the best of luck.
Please respond back with a little more details on what the outcome can or would be. Would appreciate an update.