12-29-2010, 05:39 PM
12-29-2010, 06:04 PM
(12-29-2010, 04:37 PM)Solidify Wrote: [ -> ]All I have to do is "be myself"...
This only works if you know exactly who you are, what your strengths are and how to convey them successfully. Most often, this statement is used as an excuse not to improve. What most of us present to the world isn't necessarily our true self: It's a combination of years of bad habits and fear-based behavior. Our real self ties buried underneath all the insecurities and inhibitions. So rather than just being yourself, focus on discovering and permanently bringing to the surface your best self.
Then again, if you'd to impress a woman, the means for which you'll do so depend entirely on what kind of woman you're trying to impress (ie: what she likes, dislikes, etc.)
I should've elaborated myself more on "being yourself" as to act yourself. We all know many people say or do stuff to achieve "popularity" or "get recognized" to fit into society. Just as with getting a girl, you pretend to be someone your not. You probably pretend to be a popular guy at school who got all the girls maybe because he is rich. You probably want to portray the same characteristics and eventually ended up being something you're not and become an entire whole different person who behaves and interprets things differently with "cool" trends from peers. If you are faking it then obvious your lying to others and yourself. In the long run, the new you have become is not really you. Girls hate liars.
Everyone has room to improve by learning our mistakes. Hence, we already have a system in place to help us know, school. No one is perfect. Even though some people won't admit they are wrong. We should understand and love ourselves before committing to love someone else. Know our own mistakes and faults and work and change to better the relationship