12-17-2009, 05:39 AM
I have noticed recently people are going off topic in the emotional support area and even to the point of arguing.
I was wondering if the rules could be stiffened a little in this area.
Not trying to be anal or pick on any member. I am as guilty as anyone.
I just feel particularly in this area we should allow the OP to maintain control of the thread and only people that can help in some way post or perhaps there post gets thrown into a rubbish bin of sorts?
The reason i say this is some people may be reaching out for help and to people who don't understand this it could be interpreted as weak or stupid or whatever. And for the emotional support to work it needs to maintain an element of maturity so people feel comfortable discussing there problems.
Just thought i would put it out there for debate?
I was wondering if the rules could be stiffened a little in this area.
Not trying to be anal or pick on any member. I am as guilty as anyone.
I just feel particularly in this area we should allow the OP to maintain control of the thread and only people that can help in some way post or perhaps there post gets thrown into a rubbish bin of sorts?
The reason i say this is some people may be reaching out for help and to people who don't understand this it could be interpreted as weak or stupid or whatever. And for the emotional support to work it needs to maintain an element of maturity so people feel comfortable discussing there problems.
Just thought i would put it out there for debate?