04-29-2011, 11:32 PM
(This post was last modified: 04-29-2011, 11:33 PM by AceInfinity.)
Just an update to my last post, i'm pretty pissed off right now quite honestly. Here's the deal, and what has happened to me, and after going through this, i'm never going to take a girl seriously in the same way that I did before now. This even had really changed my outlook and personality.
I'm going to keep this really simple and short so that people will actually read it, but here's what has just happened to me from what I gathered:
I had a girlfriend for a while, and by what I could tell she told a lot of her friends that she really liked me, and for some reason, whenever I asked her out to go on a date night, lately she had been saying that she was too busy, and didn't have time for it. It seemed understandable at the time, so I let it go. I used to be a really forgiving person, and I could never be mad at anyone for almost anything they did, but she ruined that 'sweet' side of me for everyone else i'll ever meet in the future I think.
What she did based on what i've heard is that one of my friends friends, asked her if she wanted to go and watch the sunset one weekend, and she said yes. The guy that asked her was a newer friend of mine and still didn't have any idea that we were going out at the time, but my 'girlfriend' told him that she wasn't going out with anyone. So she would spend time with him instead of me.
3 or 4 weekends in a row, she always seemed busy. And being that i'm a laid back person, I asked her about it, but I was never mad at her.
Not too long after all this happened she breaks up with me, and told me specifically that it wasn't fair for her in this situation. I went on for a week trying to think of all the bad things I did in the relationship, and feeling like complete sh*t for a week or two. But back then I didn't know that any of this was going on between her and this other guy who is a friend of one of my friends.
Now after hearing that, and seeing her around every once in a while, she's hanging around 2 or possibly 3 guys that potentially are interested in her. I know 2 of the 3 are definitely interested in her, but one of the three, (not the guy that watched the sunset with her), she let him get almost as far as we've ever gotten in the whole time we've been together from being at a party that I was invited to.
I ended up just walking out the door after a while of seeing the two of them together because that was a f*cking stab in the back really for me. And if she knows this one other guy likes her too, I don't think it's really fair to him either.
I know the guy that watched the sunset with her though, he's a really nice guy, and after knowing what just happened between me and her, and that she would do that with him instead of a boyfriend of hers, he told me that he really doesn't trust her anymore.
To sum things up, I don't even ever want to see her again. I thought she was a really nice person, and she has a good personality too, which is why this just completely blew my mind... I just don't even want to see or talk to her ever again. I want her out of my memory for good after what she did to me.
I hope she realizes what she did to me. Someone that had cared for her probably more than any of the other guys she's with right now, and I really hope that she understands all of the pain she caused me for no reason.
I wanted answers as to why she broke up with me, but now I don't even feel like hearing it after all i've learned just within the time span of the last 24 hours. I apologize for the way i'm speaking out on the forum right now, but I really needed to vent out my emotions here. I know it's not the professional style of writing you usually see me try to type in, but this is all i've got right now. Just mixed emotions from me.
This really should be in one of those FML comments because this was just unbelievable... I know she still thinks i'm a nice guy, there's no lie in that, but I was really manipulated by her and damaged. What she did her really just crushed me, and I would have never thought that anyone could do such a thing to someone else...
If this post seems a little hard to understand or seems scrambled up, I don't really feel like editing it to make it any clearer, I just started typing this out based on what my mind holds at this point in time.
I'm going to keep this really simple and short so that people will actually read it, but here's what has just happened to me from what I gathered:
I had a girlfriend for a while, and by what I could tell she told a lot of her friends that she really liked me, and for some reason, whenever I asked her out to go on a date night, lately she had been saying that she was too busy, and didn't have time for it. It seemed understandable at the time, so I let it go. I used to be a really forgiving person, and I could never be mad at anyone for almost anything they did, but she ruined that 'sweet' side of me for everyone else i'll ever meet in the future I think.
What she did based on what i've heard is that one of my friends friends, asked her if she wanted to go and watch the sunset one weekend, and she said yes. The guy that asked her was a newer friend of mine and still didn't have any idea that we were going out at the time, but my 'girlfriend' told him that she wasn't going out with anyone. So she would spend time with him instead of me.
3 or 4 weekends in a row, she always seemed busy. And being that i'm a laid back person, I asked her about it, but I was never mad at her.
Not too long after all this happened she breaks up with me, and told me specifically that it wasn't fair for her in this situation. I went on for a week trying to think of all the bad things I did in the relationship, and feeling like complete sh*t for a week or two. But back then I didn't know that any of this was going on between her and this other guy who is a friend of one of my friends.
Now after hearing that, and seeing her around every once in a while, she's hanging around 2 or possibly 3 guys that potentially are interested in her. I know 2 of the 3 are definitely interested in her, but one of the three, (not the guy that watched the sunset with her), she let him get almost as far as we've ever gotten in the whole time we've been together from being at a party that I was invited to.
I ended up just walking out the door after a while of seeing the two of them together because that was a f*cking stab in the back really for me. And if she knows this one other guy likes her too, I don't think it's really fair to him either.
I know the guy that watched the sunset with her though, he's a really nice guy, and after knowing what just happened between me and her, and that she would do that with him instead of a boyfriend of hers, he told me that he really doesn't trust her anymore.
To sum things up, I don't even ever want to see her again. I thought she was a really nice person, and she has a good personality too, which is why this just completely blew my mind... I just don't even want to see or talk to her ever again. I want her out of my memory for good after what she did to me.
I hope she realizes what she did to me. Someone that had cared for her probably more than any of the other guys she's with right now, and I really hope that she understands all of the pain she caused me for no reason.
I wanted answers as to why she broke up with me, but now I don't even feel like hearing it after all i've learned just within the time span of the last 24 hours. I apologize for the way i'm speaking out on the forum right now, but I really needed to vent out my emotions here. I know it's not the professional style of writing you usually see me try to type in, but this is all i've got right now. Just mixed emotions from me.
This really should be in one of those FML comments because this was just unbelievable... I know she still thinks i'm a nice guy, there's no lie in that, but I was really manipulated by her and damaged. What she did her really just crushed me, and I would have never thought that anyone could do such a thing to someone else...
If this post seems a little hard to understand or seems scrambled up, I don't really feel like editing it to make it any clearer, I just started typing this out based on what my mind holds at this point in time.