12-15-2009, 05:38 PM
I remember we used to study a psychological theory in school that there is the Edip complex and all the boys should have it. It basicaly means all the boys unconsciously have sexual desires for their mothers and they are looking for a gf that resembles their mom (same thing with the girls for their fathers).. the thing is .. I don't love my mom - sometimes I even hate her cuz she is overprotective and annoying me constantly. I wouldnt want my gf to resemble my mom in any possible way.. Also Ive read those fictional stories where guys fall in love with their sisters/moms.. I feel so far away from that.. To my sister I have absolutely no feelings - not even brotherly love.. when we were younger we used to nag each other a lot and have quarrels all the time. Now we bearly even talk to each other. Ofc if something happens to her I will protect her, but I don't feel anything to her. I have the feeling that's the reason why I feel so different from the other people some times.. I just don't feel those things Im supposed to... does this mean Im a psycho? Or is it just some lameass doc trying to convince us that we should all be the same ?
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