Thanks for the advice. I think your correct. I will just go down there and more or less do whatever he wants to.
I know he needs someone to just talk crap to for a few hrs. Clear his mind a bit i expect.
As for the prayer. Bit late for that i must say. But thank you also.
It could not have been worse timing this way. I am his younger brother and he sort of thinks. Why can he be successful and me have all these problems. I understand his feelings. Poor bugger he is. Seems every christmas time bad things happen to him.
I know he needs someone to just talk crap to for a few hrs. Clear his mind a bit i expect.
As for the prayer. Bit late for that i must say. But thank you also.
(12-16-2009, 06:13 PM)Grizzly Wrote: My step mom had a still born in 2001. That was a tough time. It sucks, and only time will heal the wounds. The only thing you can do is listen to him at first, let him know you are there, then try to tactfully steer the topic to something else. Of course, leave your coming twins out of it.
It could not have been worse timing this way. I am his younger brother and he sort of thinks. Why can he be successful and me have all these problems. I understand his feelings. Poor bugger he is. Seems every christmas time bad things happen to him.