05-21-2010, 06:02 PM
hey, well im going to start this off as point blank as i can.....
well, i'm a rather shy guy, in fact, im extremely shy, which i know is a problem, and im working on that. Anyways, i met a girl last year in my graphics design class, so we were talking, and i always listened to her "rant" if you will, she always came to me, because she knew i would always listen, because even back then i really cared about her. Well, after she graduated, it was a few months before we started talking again, and once we started talking again, all my emotions came back for her, like if she's hurt, im personally hurt, if any guy ever makes her upset, im always there for her, but at the same time im upset myself.
What im trying to get to, is, i really truely and honestly love this girl, she does mean the world to me, as stupid as that may sound to some of you. Well, as of last month she started seeing a guy Tim, and she seems to really like him and all, and, this is the hard part to describe....
like, i want her to be happy, really, that's all i want for her, but, at the same time, im also upset that she's not with me, like, the amount i care about her, is almost unreal.
Anyways, about a week or 2 ago, i finially told her, that i loved her, and her response was a "thanks for telling me" now, maybe im dumb, but i really dont know if thats a good response, or a bad one, i mean like, it could have been worse, but it could have been better... Like, then later she said "i'm really glad you told me, thank you" or something along those lines....
like, do you think theres any way for me to prove to her, or just show her, how much i really care besides what i've already done?
This is also the girl back on valentines day, since i knew she didnt have a valentine, i went out, bought her a dozen roses, got her a bear, and a card, showed up at her work, and gave them to her, i figured it would have made her day a little better.... i did it, because i care about her....
anyways, same as before, is there any way i can prove to her or just show her, how i feel, and i cant even ask her out, for the reason of she's seeing a guy, i mean, if she's happy with him, then im happy, but i personally think i could make her happier... im running out of ways to describe this.... and its just starting to bug me now....
any advice is welcome and everything, and thanks in advance.....
well, i'm a rather shy guy, in fact, im extremely shy, which i know is a problem, and im working on that. Anyways, i met a girl last year in my graphics design class, so we were talking, and i always listened to her "rant" if you will, she always came to me, because she knew i would always listen, because even back then i really cared about her. Well, after she graduated, it was a few months before we started talking again, and once we started talking again, all my emotions came back for her, like if she's hurt, im personally hurt, if any guy ever makes her upset, im always there for her, but at the same time im upset myself.
What im trying to get to, is, i really truely and honestly love this girl, she does mean the world to me, as stupid as that may sound to some of you. Well, as of last month she started seeing a guy Tim, and she seems to really like him and all, and, this is the hard part to describe....
like, i want her to be happy, really, that's all i want for her, but, at the same time, im also upset that she's not with me, like, the amount i care about her, is almost unreal.
Anyways, about a week or 2 ago, i finially told her, that i loved her, and her response was a "thanks for telling me" now, maybe im dumb, but i really dont know if thats a good response, or a bad one, i mean like, it could have been worse, but it could have been better... Like, then later she said "i'm really glad you told me, thank you" or something along those lines....
like, do you think theres any way for me to prove to her, or just show her, how much i really care besides what i've already done?
This is also the girl back on valentines day, since i knew she didnt have a valentine, i went out, bought her a dozen roses, got her a bear, and a card, showed up at her work, and gave them to her, i figured it would have made her day a little better.... i did it, because i care about her....
anyways, same as before, is there any way i can prove to her or just show her, how i feel, and i cant even ask her out, for the reason of she's seeing a guy, i mean, if she's happy with him, then im happy, but i personally think i could make her happier... im running out of ways to describe this.... and its just starting to bug me now....
any advice is welcome and everything, and thanks in advance.....