04-29-2010, 02:36 PM
Firstly, that's a crappy situation to be in 
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You are really left with little options on what to do.
If you are 100% sure about the army, then you should do it.
Your dad is just worried about you, and doing what dads do best. He will come around, and if he has no control over you joining you should not feel threatened by him.
You may want a private word with him and discuss why you want to join, and that nothing he can do will stop you.
You may also want to add that you cannot control him, nor change his mind, and that if he wants to feel that way about you, you will just have to accept it.
Remember it is your life, not his. No matter how much he wants it to be.
.You are really left with little options on what to do.
If you are 100% sure about the army, then you should do it.
Your dad is just worried about you, and doing what dads do best. He will come around, and if he has no control over you joining you should not feel threatened by him.
You may want a private word with him and discuss why you want to join, and that nothing he can do will stop you.
You may also want to add that you cannot control him, nor change his mind, and that if he wants to feel that way about you, you will just have to accept it.
Remember it is your life, not his. No matter how much he wants it to be.
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