04-12-2010, 07:45 PM
You need to speak up, really. If she makes a wise crack, throw one back at her. Never mind the fact that she is your soon-to-be sister-in-law; she obviously hasn't taken it into thought that you will be her brother-in-law (in a way?). If she says, "Have you moved from that computer since I last saw you?", simply say, "Is that any of your business? This is my house. I can do what I please." If she says something like, "Why don't you have a girlfriend?", say something like, "Why don't you have any manners? Leave me alone." You have to be abrasive, lest she just think you're kidding. The more of a jerk you are, the more she'll leave you alone. Maybe you should rant to your brother as well. Maybe something like: "Look, X, I have had it up to here with X (or 'your fiancée) making snarky comments about me since y'all have been here. It's uncalled for and she has no place to be doing it. I'm asking you to talk to her. I'm not going to sit around and let her talk down to me as if she's better than me. I am tired of it."
If you aren't willing to do something about it, then you might as well close this topic. I'm merely saying this 'cause you sound rather timid.
If you aren't willing to do something about it, then you might as well close this topic. I'm merely saying this 'cause you sound rather timid.