Well...Here it goes.

[Carb0n F1ber]

OK, here's my advice:

No one, as far as I know, is cursed to obesity. Unless you have some rare disease that makes you perpetually fat, you're practically choosing not to do something about it. You don't really have the right to complain about it if you can do something about. So, I suggest you start hitting the gym. You'll gain a lot of self-confidence, and it sounds like you could use it. Maybe I don't understand what it's like, because I'm naturally scrawny, but why don't I compare it this way? Some people are naturally muscular. I'm not. I want to be. Therefore, I hit the gym. It's the same as you. Some people are naturally skinny. You're not. You want to be (I assume?). So, you should hit the gym.

About the girl.. I'm sorry to say, but I doubt she was ever into you. She told you she "didn't want to be hurt anymore" as an excuse because she wasn't mature enough to tell you outright that she didn't want to be with you. The reason she got a boyfriend one week later or whatever is because she actually liked him. I know that must be a kick in the groin, but it wouldn't've been so bad if you had seen through her lie.

I suggest you not waste your time trying to get with her. Maybe you don't have much experience with girls, but trust me, there're hundreds out there. There're 6 billion people on this Earth, yet you're getting hung up over one? She doesn't sound like she wants you. Bugging her further will just annoy her. Why go through such arduous work just to hear the word 'no'? Find someone that WANTS to be with you.

Well said... I second this...

..and adding on, if you feel that you cannot work out much initially, try jogging on the sand... Go to the closest beach and jog like early in the morning (4 am to 5 am).. Try to sweat as much as you can... This will not only release some of the calories in you, but will also make you much more efficient mentally (trust me)... Sweating early in the morning will increase your confidence level as well (trust me again).. I've been through this road before.. I physically exert myself a lot and never got a chance to put on weight.. But I know the kind of mental freshness you get when you sweat your a$$ off...

Second, this girl needs to find a life off of you.. I truely think that she does not deserve you... Once you follow the above for a few months, trust me, your confidence level will be enough for you to ignore her and try your luck elsewhere.. In my opinion, don't try your luck, but let your luck come to you..

Good luck mate.. Write back if you need to talk .. Or you can PM me and we'll talk on MSN ...