07-30-2011, 10:23 PM
(07-30-2011, 10:15 PM)Ace Wrote: The best advice anyone can learn is that you create your own reality, whatever you believe becomes true. That's the reason why people who are an emotional wreck only get worse without proper help because they start believing everything negative as for possibilities instead of any positives.
Human nature always starts to believe the bad before the good. Phrases like "What if" "I can't" "but" and a few others are dangerous to use if you speak to yourself with them. It can have some pretty degrading subconscious effects if you aren't careful. Bad habits start, and it's harder to fix the longer you do it.
One of my very decent and good friends, unfortunately, this describes her, she talks about suicide all the time, and it upsets me. I try and talk sense into her but she's stubborn, so once she has her mind set on something, she's wont change the way she thinks about it. Sad to see really.