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Confused, Feelings, Gays what does it all mean? - Sam - 06-09-2010
Hi there I have lately been thinking about what the feelings I feel mean and I'm hoping members here can help me out
Basically I find myself being almost attracted to gay stuff. For instance this porn pop up appeared the other day with like a site which had gay videos on them.
I was feeling curious so I watched one and I have to say that they didn't disgust me and I didn't think it was wrong. However I did find it slightly arousing.
That being said I tried to picture myself like being in this gay sex situation and I can honestly say I am certain I could never do any of it. But why is it that I quite enjoy watching it? I love girls and I know that I would do anything sexually with a woman but I like watching the homosexual stuff but could never do anything sexually with another man?
Is this semi bisexual or something? I'm confused.
RE: Confused, Feelings, Gays what does it all mean? - Nemmyy - 06-09-2010
Maybe you're just a really horny kid? It doesn't sound like you're gay or bisexual, since you didn't say anything about being attracted to men in your school/life.
RE: Confused, Feelings, Gays what does it all mean? - Sam - 06-09-2010
Lol mega horny Sam. I don't think I am.
RE: Confused, Feelings, Gays what does it all mean? - Elektrisk - 06-09-2010
Hi, Sam.
It could be that the concept is so foreign to your body that you just can't foresee it. If you are bisexual, then this will sort itself out as you discover your new sexuality. To be honest, I myself am comfortable with my sexuality, but I don't like the idea of anal sex at all. Gay guys are not limited to stereotypical anal sex for sexual pleasure. Keep that in mind
You may add my MSN or Skype me if you want additional advice.
RE: Confused, Feelings, Gays what does it all mean? - Sam - 06-09-2010
Yes I understand that Elektrisk and your advice is probably quite valid seeing as you are gay
Thanks for your comments.
RE: Confused, Feelings, Gays what does it all mean? - TheOverAnalyzer_808 - 06-09-2010
Maybe you are starting to acknowledge your true sexuality.
(06-09-2010, 04:33 PM)Sam Wrote: Basically I find myself being almost attracted to gay stuff.Sounds like a case of bi-curiosity. It's normal for people our age ;) and younger. I am sure you have heard about the "experimental phase." I went through the same process and that is how I got validation that I was physically and emotionally attracted to both sexes. No worries though you will figure it out in no time!
I was feeling curious so I watched one and I have to say that they didn't disgust me and I didn't think it was wrong. However I did find it slightly arousing.
RE: Confused, Feelings, Gays what does it all mean? - Sam - 06-10-2010
Bi-curious I've never heard of that. Thanks for the advice TOA.
RE: Confused, Feelings, Gays what does it all mean? - TheOverAnalyzer_808 - 06-10-2010
(06-10-2010, 01:38 AM)Sam Wrote: Bi-curious I've never heard of that. Thanks for the advice TOA.
Your welcome Sam
.Supplementary Information:
1. Bicuriosity
A state in which you are strangely attracted to members of the same sex, but have only had sex with the opposite sex. Usually people who are part of this trend use this for experimentation/pleasure.
via UrbanDictionary.com
RE: Confused, Feelings, Gays what does it all mean? - spY[3Mo] - 06-10-2010
I'm in the somewhat same boat
RE: Confused, Feelings, Gays what does it all mean? - TheOverAnalyzer_808 - 06-10-2010
(06-10-2010, 06:57 PM)nppl09 Wrote: I'm in the somewhat same boat
At least you are honest about it. Most people will try to deny everything XD