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My mum has JUST left me and my bro. - Jack. - 06-03-2010 Quote:Ok how can i start this. Ok that was the post on hackforums i made. Afew days later she changed her mind, and said she wasnt going. Mum told me and my bro the other day she had to go into work at 3Am to help out (she is a carerer) My bro went in her room to see if she has gone and then he finds 3 notes one for my bro, sis lives with her bf and one for me... Basically she has said she loves us ect and she has gone.. Great so what do i do now. atm typing this im crying im seriously angry and upset.. like am i ever going to see my mum again?!!? RE: My mum has JUST left me and my bro. - timestandstill - 06-03-2010 That's just terrible. RE: My mum has JUST left me and my bro. - Jack. - 06-03-2010 this all happened 1-2 hours ago now cant get in contact with my mum i don't know what to do. RE: My mum has JUST left me and my bro. - syntaXeRRoR - 06-03-2010 Your sister lives with her boyfriend so she's almost an adult. Call her and tell her everything that happened she will for sure know what to do. RE: My mum has JUST left me and my bro. - Eve - 06-03-2010 Contact your sister, but also contact an older family member. This is abandonment and it is not fair to you or your siblings. If you cannot contact a family member, get in touch with a teacher at your school, who can refer you to a counsellor. If the time of day does not permit it, call a helpline. If you can't get a helpline number, I would seriously consider getting the police involved and reporting your mum as a missing person. Let them call her workplace to see if she has given notice, or at least find out if she has left the country. My thoughts are with you. RE: My mum has JUST left me and my bro. - Jack. - 06-04-2010 Thanks alot eve, i wrote this thread just to know your comment. I rang my sister up at 4am she was annoyed but more pissed off with ma mum. Dad rang me 7am sharp lol had like 1-2 hours sleep. its 8:20am now... he said what you wanna do so i basically told him everything we have in the house and he is going to try and sort out a van for tomorrow... My mum stated in a letter she left me and my bro that she hasnt payed the rent she used it to buy a ticket for Africa. Yes my dad is annoyed its really unfair he has to sort everything out and cost him money to get us down there. when we are there we will have to Go to the council and try get a flat or sort something out with them with my sister as they are moving into a 2 bed house maybe the council will give them a bigger house and let us stay there.. Ill have to sort my self out and get a job and stuff. My sister texted my mum she replied "this is where im happy" i keep ringing her but she aint replying. RE: My mum has JUST left me and my bro. - Eve - 06-04-2010 It sounds like there are a lot of decisions that need to be made but the plan sounds sensible. Consider filing the missing person report -- if I was in your position I would do so for the sake of finding out where my parent is. You also need to get some sleep so that you can think clearly about what jobs you will apply for. This is a really emotional time. You and your siblings will have to give each other strength. I will check in on this thread too, so keep well. RE: My mum has JUST left me and my bro. - Gadget - 06-04-2010 If I may ask? How old are you? This happened to my step-siblings except their mom and my step-dad were still married. And basically, she took what she wanted and flew up to New York. It was really hard on them, so I think I know how you might feel right now. Have things like this happened before? If so I would consider going to live with your dad. (If thats possible) Best of luck to you. I hope your mother comes back and realizes the mistake she made. RE: My mum has JUST left me and my bro. - Kirk Gandril - 06-05-2010 You can live with your dad or get help from authorities as what Eve had stated. Finding her will be faster with that. RE: My mum has JUST left me and my bro. - Vendor - 06-05-2010 WoW dude send her a gift or somthing |