I think that the simple fact that she cheated on you shows her unfaithfulness. I don't see why it should matter if it's with another girl, cheating is cheating. Do you think she'd be happy if you cheated on her with another guy?
(05-26-2010, 06:32 AM)Ethical Wrote: [ -> ]... with another girl. LOL.
I don't even know what to do with this, she just told me and it happened like 2-3 months ago. We were on msn talking about chicks making out for some reason and she randomly decided to tell me she hooked up with another girl I'm friends with while they were camping. I think chicks making out = hot. But she cheated on me.. Lol. I'm confused. What do I do with this? ._.
Correct me if I am wrong, but you seem to be taking this very well for a guy who was cheated on. As it has been mentioned previously, cheating is cheating and you know what they say about cheaters.
(05-27-2010, 01:00 AM)Ethical Wrote: [ -> ]Yeah, I don't know...
She says she didn't like it and it didn't mean anything... But knowing she gave in that easily makes me think if a situation arose she'd give in to another guy pretty easily too.
I totally agree with you. You have to decide if she is someone who is worth being with and if she is you should both discuss some boundaries (in my opinion of course).
Girl vs girl possible
I hate gf/bfs who cheat while they saying ''I love you'' I never leave you and then they go wrong..
I dont think kissing another girl is a big thing, i wouldnt consider it cheeting tbh .. more of hey lets kiss eachother ! it looks like it was just a (maybe drunken) hell of it kiss, and your thinking too much into it
At least it was with a girl and not a guy, she's still with you so it mustn't of meant anything to her.
I myself, wouldn't personally mind if she cheated on me with a other girl, I'm not sure why. If she cheated on me with a other boy, I'd me mad as hell though.
Why does the sex of the other party matter? That is a stupid double standard. If you are into that kind of thing, then all the power to you. But if you not cheating is cheating, regardless of the sex of the parties involved.
You are taking this well which makes me think you are not into the relationship that much. You are probably infatuated by her, but it does not sound that serious to be honest.
Don't be hurt. Ask for a 3 some next time.
I do not know what I would do either hope you figure it out that's a tough decision I'm glad I am not in your shoe's good luck.