You should talk to your mom about this.
Quote:Your mother is blinded by love and there is nothing you can do about that. She will wake up one day.
Agreed.
She will always take his side on everything, no matter what happens.
My plan would be to just ignore it until you're able to move out.
Or simply frame him in some way.
Maybe you should talk to someone close to you, Such as a close friend, family member or even better your mom.
If I were you, I would just confront him and tell him to man up to his responsibilities or something bad will happen. If he hits you or something, you can just call the police on him.
(04-18-2010, 05:56 AM)matt Wrote: [ -> ]If I were you, I would just confront him and tell him to man up to his responsibilities or something bad will happen. If he hits you or something, you can just call the police on him.
Idle threats won't get him anywhere. His dad will most likely just laugh in his face.
(04-14-2010, 10:19 AM)Hatashi Wrote: [ -> ]He doesn't care about anyone.. at all.
He doesn't care about doing something that would make things easy for family members.
If he's happy, then thats that, if something bad would happen for me, he wouldn't care at all.
I have never in my life seen such an imbecile, and such an arrogant human.
He sees everyone's mistakes, when talking to him, he always finds something to bug someone about it, when I ask him something, he ignores me, when I say ''Good night'' when I go to my room to sleep he doesn't respond.
I can fully understand how you feel regarding this. This is an human that only cares for himself, BUT you don't know him like your mother do. Through your mothers eyes he's probobly the opposite to what he is through yours. Remember though, if you hurt him, you'll probobly hurt your mother. The only way to release yourself from his talons is to communicate. Talk with your mother, make her open her eyes. Tell her that she diserves someone better than him.
You probobly would like to kick his ass, but remember that you'll be the one left to suffer.
-Hope this helps 
majordave Wrote:Well, my stepmom kind of went whacky, and my dad ended up divorcing her because he wasn't about to move to Jerusalem with her and the cult she joined that decided she was the 2nd coming of Jesus Christ
Let me guess; Jehova Witness?
majordave Wrote:If he's home all day, why does your mom take your brother to daycare instead of having him watch him?
Maybe he hasn't been a parent before. As you suggested, it's possible he is rather ignorant on the subject. I think his mom might feel insecure about having an inexperienced person watching her child, but he has to start somewhere, right?
OP,
How's the situation? Please comment back with an update.
(04-21-2010, 03:36 AM)Elektrisk Wrote: [ -> ]Maybe he hasn't been a parent before. As you suggested, it's possible he is rather ignorant on the subject. I think his mom might feel insecure about having an inexperienced person watching her child, but he has to start somewhere, right?
Thats weird, my aunt has given me a duty to watch over a my relative all the time. He was quite small then. And I was 15-16.
Its not that hard and he can show his mother, that he can do it.
(04-21-2010, 07:26 AM)Uchiha Sasuke Wrote: [ -> ]Thats weird, my aunt has given me a duty to watch over a my relative all the time. He was quite small then. And I was 15-16.
Its not that hard and he can show his mother, that he can do it.
Well, everyone
should have some parental instinct. I'm just trying to give the OP's step-father the benefit of the doubt. It doesn't sound like the OP has really tried communicating with his father about the issue.
I know that you said you have talked with your mum about this, but try again. Tell her you don't like him and you don't want to have him as a dad. That he doesn't care about you, your mum and brother. Tell your mum that you feel sad for your brother and how he is gonna have it. In norway the orphanage talks to parents about such stuff and they aren't only to take childs. If its the same the place you live tell her you are gonna go to orphanage and have a talk with them. Take it SERIOUSLY.