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(04-13-2010, 12:47 AM)Elite Wrote: [ -> ]Don't compare yourself to others, and forget your ex, she's a bitch anyway.

easier said than done :/

You have to replace what she had filled with something else. The more time you have that is unoccupied the more you will think about it. Thats why its always hard at first to get out but at the same time it will take your mind off things making it easier for you

(04-13-2010, 05:42 AM)Dragon Wrote: [ -> ]easier said than done :/

Clinical Depression.

Tell your parents, trust me, they'll listen. You may need to see a therapist/psychologist if it's bad enough. Keep your good friends close, spend a lot of time with them.
As for the ex, ignore her. If she texts something to you like you posted, then shes a fuckface whore, and feel free to call her that.

1) Ignore your ex
2) Tell your parents
3) Do some activites with your friends
4) Go to the mall and find a new girl.
5) Repeat 3 & 4

I feel you. Im the same, except, I don't go to school, cry or think about dying so much.
The best thing to do is, to spend time with friends and try to get a new girlfriend. Which will take your mind off of these things. I haven't cured myself either, I don't know the answer to this problem. But my friends do the job for now.

Happiness really is about what state of mind you are in like if your always thinking down and sad then you will feel like that you just have to remember the good times youve had and keep having them dont be all down on yourself

Girls are girls you dont have to focus on them right now you will find that perfect girl when you get older

If you are all sad then you will do bad in school maybe get a tutor

Hope this helps
~Emotionz

You are definitely depressed. You have no self-confidence, which destroys any chance of you being happy. What makes the guy whom she's dating now so much better than you? Muscles? Smarts? Do something about it. Don't sit around and mope, because your life isn't going to change on its own. If you want your life to change, then change it. Writing paragraphs about how much of a failure you are isn't going to change anything. The reason your ex probably broke up with you is because you are so depressing. I feel depressed after reading your post. That's how bad it is. Do yourself a favor and book an appointment with a therapist. You need some joy in life. Consider joining a gym. Seriously. Before you say, "Oh but people will look at me ..." No, they won't. People don't care. Really. They don't care if you're fat/super skinny. They are all there for the same purpose. The gym will give you self-confidence (*fingers crossed*) and will help you form a good physique.

Seriously, you're hung up over one girl. Your first mistake was putting so much emotional weight in her. When she ran, all of that crashed around you. Don't ever make that mistake again. There's six billion people in this world. Surely you can find another girl who is better than her. I doubt you've tried looking. Yeah, time is the most prominent factor when it comes to getting over a breakup, but you gotta wanna try.

Go clubbing, or at least do SOMETHING with your time. Get a job, a hobby, whatever. Something that can take your mind off of it. But dude, it's pitiful to sit here and read you speak in a self deprecating manner. Don't think I'm being a jerk by being so honest. Honestly, I'm doing you a favor. You need to wake up.

Just tell your parents your depressed.

I've been through that stage, I've had an ex who was a complete bitch too for no reason; however they could just be pmsing.

I mean you can tell your parents you're depressed, but don't let it get into that doctor crap with anti depressents and crap. That's just fudged.

Seriously, just go out with your friends and do stupid crap it'll cheer you up, experience something new. Go to a party, don't drink beer, drink liqueur it'll fudge you up quicker, and believe me you'll just let loose and you'll go and start random convos with people and meet people and it'll be great. Just don't have too much.

May not be the smartest way, but you're only a teenager once, those are the years where you can do retarded crap and all anyone will ever say is "Stupid teenagers"

(05-03-2010, 04:42 PM)iStealth Wrote: [ -> ]I've been through that stage, I've had an ex who was a complete bitch too for no reason; however they could just be pmsing.

I mean you can tell your parents you're depressed, but don't let it get into that doctor crap with anti depressents and crap. That's just fudged.

Seriously, just go out with your friends and do stupid crap it'll cheer you up, experience something new. Go to a party, don't drink beer, drink liqueur it'll fudge you up quicker, and believe me you'll just let loose and you'll go and start random convos with people and meet people and it'll be great. Just don't have too much.

May not be the smartest way, but you're only a teenager once, those are the years where you can do retarded crap and all anyone will ever say is "Stupid teenagers"

Yeah, I told them I'm unhappy but I never said depressed. And what I'm trying is to just have fun with whatever.
But thanks for all your input and advice you guys.
Although some of it wasn't helpful, just rude :/
But most of you guys are very kind and helpful, thanks much