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Love doest excist, love is a feeling and feelings do excist. Words "I love you" are a way to express this feeling. But love sucks and are distrurbing, humans are taught that feelings cauze pain and pain is evil.

I don't believe that 'love' is some supernatural force that many seem to believe. It's simply chemicals that your body induces and creates the feeling associated with 'love'. I mean, surely you don't believe that happiness, anger, or euphoria are supernatural feelings, either? They're all based on the same principle, imo. Look at it this way. The words, "I love you" DO have meaning, just as "I hate you" would imply that you have great feelings of disdain or anger towards that person, "I love you" would imply that you experience great feelings associated with 'love', which is induced by a series of chemical changes in your brain (just like other emotions), towards that person. Happiness fades, and so does love. For instance, if you buy or receive a super awesome, kickass gaming computer; the best you've ever had, then of course you're going to feel happy or maybe even euphoric, but that same feeling will deteroriate over time. Yes, you'll still be greateful or content that you have such a great computer, but you won't feel the same euphoria as you did when you first received it. It's like why it's not favorable to give little kids puppies as gifts. They love them at first, but then they get bored with them. But, I digress. My point is that love, like other emotions, fade. I believe that the length of its existence depends on what induced it in the first place. I would think that it's reasonable to believe that a teenager will fall in and out of love more frequently than an adult, solely because of all the testosterone and other hormones that are more dominant in a teen's body as opposed to a full grown adult. I think you know where I'm going with this. My mom just brought home Wendy's, so I'm gonna stop babbling on here and go eat. I hope that my post is clear.

Well, here is the definition of "Love" -
Definitions of Love on the Web:

* a strong positive emotion of regard and affection; "his love for his work"; "children need a lot of love"
* any object of warm affection or devotion; "the theater was her first love"; "he has a passion for pencil fighting";
* have a great affection or liking for; "I love French food"; "She loves her boss and works hard for him"
* beloved: a beloved person; used as terms of endearment
* get pleasure from; "I love cooking"
* a deep feeling of sexual desire and attraction; "their love left them indifferent to their surroundings"; "she was his first love"
* be enamored or in love with; "She loves her husband deeply"
* a score of zero in tennis or squash; "it was 40 love"
* sleep together: have sexual intercourse with; "This student sleeps with everyone in her dorm"; "Adam knew Eve"; "Were you ever intimate with this man?"
* sexual love: sexual activities (often including sexual intercourse) between two people; "his lovemaking disgusted her"; "he hadn't had any love in months"; "he has a very complicated love life"

(12-15-2009, 01:29 PM)Elektrisk Wrote: [ -> ]I don't believe that 'love' is some supernatural force that many seem to believe. It's simply chemicals that your body induces and creates the feeling associated with 'love'. I mean, surely you don't believe that happiness, anger, or euphoria are supernatural feelings, either? They're all based on the same principle, imo. Look at it this way. The words, "I love you" DO have meaning, just as "I hate you" would imply that you have great feelings of disdain or anger towards that person, "I love you" would imply that you experience great feelings associated with 'love', which is induced by a series of chemical changes in your brain (just like other emotions), towards that person. Happiness fades, and so does love. For instance, if you buy or receive a super awesome, kickass gaming computer; the best you've ever had, then of course you're going to feel happy or maybe even euphoric, but that same feeling will deteroriate over time. Yes, you'll still be greateful or content that you have such a great computer, but you won't feel the same euphoria as you did when you first received it. It's like why it's not favorable to give little kids puppies as gifts. They love them at first, but then they get bored with them. But, I digress. My point is that love, like other emotions, fade. I believe that the length of its existence depends on what induced it in the first place. I would think that it's reasonable to believe that a teenager will fall in and out of love more frequently than an adult, solely because of all the testosterone and other hormones that are more dominant in a teen's body as opposed to a full grown adult. I think you know where I'm going with this. My mom just brought home Wendy's, so I'm gonna stop babbling on here and go eat. I hope that my post is clear.

Nicely said lol.

Let's break it down first:
There is a "God" love;
There is a "Brotherly/Friendly" love;
And
There is a "Marital/Sexual" love;
Godly Love "Phila Leon"
This kind of love you can only experience with a relationship with God. This kind of love deals with a reverence, dependancy, dedication. This kind of love has to be given to you.
Brotherly/Friendly Love "Phila Khophra"
This love is experienced with your friends, brothers, mothers, fathers; of course there is going to be different forms of this love but that is basically what it encompasses.
Marital/Sexual Love "Phila Cintqupla/Cegyia"
This is the love you have for your Boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse. This is the love where you want to screw your wife/gf/bf. But when you have only the sole desire to have sex; then it is not truly love.
I'll finish this later also.

Love is a loyality sworn. Not burning for a moment. http://www.plyrics.com/lyrics/thrice/theweight.html


And its true. Love exists. We just don't portray it the way we should. Look at the lyrics or the song. It is the truth of this matter.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O5I8xg69Yjo

idk if there is love, but FALLING in love is very dangerous .. i mean if u feel like destroying yourself ..yeah.. fall in love.. they call it a fall for a reason... i had fallen in love only once and it was lame, stupid and humiliating (from my point of view) and i never wanna do the same mistake. i know i sound naive but thats just my opinion

p.s. Аноним, very nice post +1

Love is basically an emotional attachment to something. Like you love your dog.
Love is real and has been proven. When the brain is introduced to a loved one, the brains stimulates and acts differently. Yes, it exists.

(12-15-2009, 05:19 PM)BIG DEAL Wrote: [ -> ]idk if there is love, but FALLING in love is very dangerous .. i mean if u feel like destroying yourself ..yeah.. fall in love.. they call it a fall for a reason... i had fallen in love only once and it was lame, stupid and humiliating (from my point of view) and i never wanna do the same mistake. i know i sound naive but thats just my opinion

p.s. Аноним, very nice post +1

Yea I feel the same way.

Love is a passing emotion like hate and spite and all the rest.
From my experience i find love can come and go in a heartbeat.