It's probably best to spend time with people who you can view as just friends.
(02-05-2012, 09:18 PM)ÜB3R Wrote: [ -> ]This definitely help. Today seems a little better. I mean when I'm around people it doesn't affect me that much, but when I'm alone (at night most of the time) it hits hard.
I am pleased to hear you are getting along better and the key thing when in situations like this is to keep yourself busy all the time. Like you said when you are around people and keeping yourself occupied you generally stop thinking about things. I would advise at night times when your alone trying to interact with people via msn, camfrog which ever one u feel comfortable with and also pass some time and maybes learn some coding or try something new. Hope this helps and nice to hear your getting better
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Yeah I just need a place filler for the empty spot that they created. :/
My problem is always wanting to spend time with my GF but really, I've been realizing that it's better being apart here & there.
(02-08-2012, 07:00 AM)///ViNcE Wrote: [ -> ]My problem is always wanting to spend time with my GF but really, I've been realizing that it's better being apart here & there.
I had a girlfriend that thought she had to spend every waking moment with me. Needless to say after we spent all spring break together I was ready to separate. Not to long after that we did.
(02-08-2012, 06:22 PM)SniperRiflezzzz Wrote: [ -> ]I had a girlfriend that thought she had to spend every waking moment with me. Needless to say after we spent all spring break together I was ready to separate. Not to long after that we did.
Other than that, how else has everything been???
I had a real boost last night. Kind of complicated to explain if you aren't in the service that I do. But things have been going well.
(02-08-2012, 06:41 PM)SniperRiflezzzz Wrote: [ -> ]I had a real boost last night. Kind of complicated to explain if you aren't in the service that I do. But things have been going well.
It's great to hear you're feeling better. The advice people have given on here is great, use it well.
Surround yourself with friends and keep yourself busy, that way you don't have time to feel lonely.
The right girl will come along on her own, try not to look for her, let her come to you. That way, you know she's the one.
Keep doing what you're doing if it's keeping you happy.
Best of luck, I hope this helps.
That is really great to hear
(02-04-2012, 10:07 PM)SniperRiflezzzz Wrote: [ -> ]Well I've pretty much burnt two bridges with my past girls that are friends, and for some reason I feel lonely. I don't have the confidence to talk to another girl or someone that I don't know. I don't know what the problem is...
Can anyone help me?
I'm sorry to hear that this has happened to you, I'd be more than happy to assist you in overcoming that problem.
It's your mental state, You have to lose that thought and make yourself think positively.
Just try and make social and simple conversations, then improve from there.
There is no need to rush things, take it slow and eventually it'll all work out.