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Theres a simple solution to all of this, just simply dont be his friend...
If someone was aggressive i would call them a "friend"

Thanks for the advices. I don't see him often. Which is good. And he never added me on Facebook (worry the most).
At last. I'm a senior and he is a sophmore. Then I think I could just hide if I see him.

(11-26-2011, 03:01 PM)intel 4004 Wrote: [ -> ]Thanks for the advices. I don't see him often. Which is good. And he never added me on Facebook (worry the most).
At last. I'm a senior and he is a sophmore. Then I think I could just hide if I see him.

Sounds good that you have made some progress intel.
But hiding is probably the last thing you want to do.
Don't hide from a problem, Just confront it.
If he happens to see you, just remain cool & calm
& make nothing of it. Keep the conversation to quick small talk
and as he takes a pause on the talking just inform him you're about to be busy
& have important things to handle & add "I'll talk to you later"
Just to keep him in the zone like everything is ok.
Soon enough he will get the point and just fade away.

Explain to him he's too aggressive, and you can't be friends with him anymore, he might shape up his act!

Tell him to stop being so clingy. I'm sure he will understand.

What do you mean he's aggressive?

(12-01-2011, 11:21 PM)Professor Oak Wrote: [ -> ]What do you mean he's aggressive?

(11-25-2011, 02:05 PM)intel 4004 Wrote: [ -> ]What I mean is he talk too much, too fast. Like what I said previously, I only knew him in an hour and he already start asking me going over to his house, not once or twic, but mutliple times. And he is like all planned out......I just got afriad of him.

Some people really just like to meet new people and there's the whole thing of you being a senior to his sophomore. The freshman and sophomores in my highschool were in awe of us as seniors lol. Remember he's probably just looking to meet friends, and probably didn't mean anything by inviting you to his house. Just tell him how you feel, that you don't really know him well enough to be going over to his house. And if he gets upset about it, then you know that he isn't worthy of your friendship. If he is cool about it and still decides to be your friend then you know really that's all he wanted was a bit of friendship.