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I'm getting the same thing from my woman. Only difference, I know of no other man in the picture. Like I said man, just gotta pick your head up and carry on. No, that does not mean get over it. I know you can't just get over it. I still have dreams about my woman. It bugs the fudge out of me. But what I do is put my mind on other things. I enjoy technology, imma techy geek. Though I am behind in the tech world, I try to dig so much out of it. Info info info. So lately I have been burying myself in the computer. It helps keep my mind off of her. If you have any pictures of her, get rid of them. Throw them away or bury them/hide them. Don't look at them, don't dig for them. It just makes the urn for her worse. If you have any gifts she gave you, put them away too. Leave them alone. Anything that relates to her has to be hidden away. Maybe later you can pull it back out when you feel like she doesn't way so heavily on your mind. Stay off of facebook too. That is a big must. You are going to be drawn to her page. I went on facebook the other day just to contact a friend about something. Sure enough... I drove over to her facebook page and started looking at pictures and reading her status because I was curious. Curious = yearn for her. That isn't good. GET OFF FACEBOOK. Stay off. Put away anything that makes you think of her and bury yourself in everything you enjoy. Reading, video games, friends (personally I don't like to be around people to much. Specially if they are not aware of the position, they tend to try to talk to you about it and that just brings the thoughts back. And most of all I HATE SEEING COUPLES. Drives me nuts), whatever your hobby is; just do it. Remove all connections to the thought of her and it will dribble out of your mind. Might be slowly. It has been taking about 2 weeks for me. But I've been getting better. I went a whole week eating bare minimum of food. Lost weight, not good. I gained about 20 in military training over 5 months and lost it in a few weeks. You just gotta live every other angle of your life to the best of your ability bro. Suicide isn't worth it. I know it digs at your mind. It digs at my mind to. So lately I have been trying to write about it. Helps me a little bit. But I keep the writing to myself. Along time ago I made a deal with myself, I wouldn't kill myself till I'm 25 unless I have made my life by then. Sometimes I really consider saying fudge that and just doing it. But you also gotta think about the people you will hurt. Think how your grandmother would feel if she saw it or just found out. Your siblings. Your family in general. If you got a family you don't feel loves you, you are wrong. They are just showing it wrong, or cruel about it. If you have a family that you know loves you, then think about how you'd be doing them wrong. Trust me, it isnt worth it. Man, we almost have robots, holograms, and fully true electric cars. There is so much cool crap about to happen in life and you are thinking of letting a human tear you apart and leaving this world. Humans are the worst thing to live for in my opinion. Live for yourself and the world to explore. Don't kill yourself because a woman has got you down. Kill yourself because some dude has you tied to a chair and is going to butt rape you. But seeing as you aren't in that situation. Live on man. Everything helps make you stronger in the long run. One day you'll look back (and I know everyone probably says this) and you'll be glad you didn't. You'll find something out there. Just don't live life like a hermit. Don't be afraid to try something new.

This is absolutely no reason to kill yourself. It pointless to do that over a GIRL.

As time passes, your feelings for her wil fade away. It's not going to be right away, but it'll happen. Just get your mind off of it.

a permanent solution isn't the right answer it is a girl you shouldn't worry about it there will always be another girl in the future.

You are silly. Bitches are not worth your own life. If you think so, than you really do have some intro-personal sorting out to do.

I know you liked her but killing yourself over a break up is not what you should do. When school starts again i would talk to your guidance counselor about this, they will be able to help you and be there for you. Never ever ever ever hurt yourself because of someone else, shes not worth it in my opinion.

It should never be a point in your life that makes you want to kill yourself.
What will that help? What will it prove? Its plenty others girls out there.
And dude its only been 1 month but i understand that feelings can grow in that
short period of time. But its not worth taking your life nothing is!

So man just put faith in it everything will turn out good

The ocean is the world.
Girls are the fishes.
You are the bait.

Imagine how many girls in the whole world would want you. Bro, think about the kids in, say, Africa. They're starving to death. Yet you're here, you have internet and you think about suicide.

I've thought about it before, I decided to just look good. Imagine the face of your ex when she finds out that you're looking better than before.

(08-16-2011, 02:45 AM)Retrotiger Wrote: [ -> ]I've thought about it before, I decided to just look good. Imagine the face of your ex when she finds out that you're looking better than before.

I second this. You make yourself more the person then she ever saw. And she will think back about how bad of a mistake it was for her. But don't use this as a window of opportunity to come back to the relationship. Show you're better than that and move up and beyond. Find better. In due time, all things work out.