(06-25-2011, 11:10 AM)Bяian ♪ Wrote: [ -> ]Yeah I don't really have a problem with her experimenting the clothing style and stuff, I was mainly worried about her going off me and bailing with her new emoish friends. Basically getting to the stage where she would have to choose them or me. I didn't want that so I'm letting her go through the phase and seeing how it goes. And yeah she said shes 'scene' which is actually quite hot apparently after I asked my friends about it 
Yes, but there's a huge difference between emo and scene. "Emo," I'm sure, is not even a style of clothing.
You love her. She's turning emo, she's getting depressed, make her happy. Don't leave her all alone or it will get worst.
(06-25-2011, 03:57 PM)Pulse. Wrote: [ -> ]You love her. She's turning emo, she's getting depressed, make her happy. Don't leave her all alone or it will get worst.
She's only changing her clothing style, lol. It's not like she's harming herself or changing her personality.
There's a possibility it may lead to that.
(06-25-2011, 04:06 PM)Pulse. Wrote: [ -> ]There's a possibility it may lead to that.
Sure, anything can lead to it, but from what OP is telling us, she has no emotional problems, so we can't just assume that she's turning emo just based on her changing her clothing style.
Yeah I dont think shes depressed, it's just her style and new friends I was worried about but as long as still likes me I guess I should be happy to put up with some temporary changes
(06-26-2011, 06:42 PM)Bяian ♪ Wrote: [ -> ]Yeah I dont think shes depressed, it's just her style and new friends I was worried about but as long as still likes me I guess I should be happy to put up with some temporary changes
Alright, so she is scene correct? it might be a temporary thing it might not. Would you dump her for her just being scene? i would hope not, you act like you wouldn't. Emo is technically emotional is what it stands for. Almost all forms of music are "Emo". I think though that if she starts to act more depressed etc then DO NOT leave her, that will make things 10x worse. You need to be there for her if she becomes depressed so it gets better. yes i did read the thread and no it did not have to do too much with it, i was just putting a little bit out there. Just hope that if she does come to the decision of the scene people or you, that she picks you.
(06-26-2011, 06:42 PM)Bяian ♪ Wrote: [ -> ]Yeah I dont think shes depressed, it's just her style and new friends I was worried about but as long as still likes me I guess I should be happy to put up with some temporary changes
Yeah, it's just a phase. She'll change back.
(06-24-2011, 03:40 AM)Bяian ♪ Wrote: [ -> ]Some of you might remember me talking about her recently about other 'sexual' problems. Well we managed to sort that out but now it's even worse. She's met this new group of friends in her college and there all sort of emo/gothic style.
I've never personally had a clique or been stereotypical towards others but I've always been sort of sporty,casual type guy with good friends. Where I'm from Emos hate these type of guys and rarely socialize with them. I saw her yesterday, her make up has changed, she has died bits of her hair red and she was wearing all black. I even said to her right there and then, 'why the fudge are you dressed like an emo' She replied ' I'm not Brian, it's scene' Now I looked up 'scene' in google and it looks pretty dam emo to me !
Anyway it's only a matter of time before her friends pressure her into loyalty so I know she will bail on me soon.
She says she loves me and I love her and shes not the kind of girl that people dump, but these are different circumstances.
The question is do I wait to see if this is just a phase and try to get her to go back to the way she was? Or do I dump her before she dumps me !?
BAIL.
I can honestly say scene girls are hot.
If she's hot, and you enjoy it stick with her, if you don't like how she is dressing/looking, might as well leave her.