(05-24-2011, 08:12 PM)Wolves Wrote: [ -> ]I had a HUGE conversation about staying possitive with my mom this morning. I opened up to her when we were in the car, and she kept telling me stay posstive.
Quote:It's always nice to open up to family.
I can see where you are coming from.
I imagine you feel stuck in place and trapped in the same routine.
I feel perhaps spreading out and expanding on things that make you happy may help.
I see a lot of similarities between you and I.
I'm always helpful, but don't expand my friendship past me being polite and helpful, kind of like a create a social barrier.
Wanna be friends
?
You and I are definately alike, because I did expand on something I LOVE doing. I joined a paintball (speedball) team and I'm doing it because it makes me feel amazing and takes my mind off everything else. When I am with my girlfriend and when I play paintball, it seems like nothing else matters.
Get some excersise, force yourself damnit!
Join a team for sports - maybe the sheer embarassment of not showing up will motivate you.
-cFH
(05-28-2011, 09:10 PM)Confusedhatter Wrote: [ -> ]Get some excersise, force yourself damnit!
Join a team for sports - maybe the sheer embarassment of not showing up will motivate you.
-cFH
Im currently in a paintball team and we practice once or twice a week! (speedball)
New update: I am beggining to search for jobs! I am trying to hard to self motivate myself, it`s going pretty god so far.
I suggest pointing goals. It will take a while but after a while this will help.
Well, I'm in a rut, I'm failing 3 courses, and if I want to pass, I have to do around 11 hours of homework in the next week.
Goals are always best to go for. To be completely honest, Paintball and girlfriends won't get you anywhere unless your girlfriends job is hiring? Find what you're good at, study it and see if any jobs require your skills.
Goals:
- Get a new job
- Figure out what I will do next year in College
I will begin this when I return from vacation. (June19th)
I would personally already start looking for a job a bit so when you get home, you know what you're going to do.
Yes but no one would hire because I am leaving for vacation June12th.
But I already have some ideas on where and where not to apply.
That's what I mean. Get an idea of where you would like to work at but wait till after vacation to call/apply their.