I had my first 'real' girlfriend when I turned 13 (current age.) If she is really hiper, talk to her when she is most calm. Possibly at night. To ensure you don't get rejected, you can always ask one of her friends to ask if she likes you, and if she does great. If you are too shy to ask, get her friend to hook you up. Be sure to return her with a nice thank you if all goes well.
If you want to be a man, just when she is alone, walk up to her and say "*name*, do you want to go out with me?" If you are upfront, and keep calm, there is a slim chance she will say no.
(03-14-2011, 10:19 PM).bLaZeD Wrote: [ -> ]I had my first 'real' girlfriend when I turned 13 (current age.) If she is really hiper, talk to her when she is most calm. Possibly at night. To ensure you don't get rejected, you can always ask one of her friends to ask if she likes you, and if she does great. If you are too shy to ask, get her friend to hook you up. Be sure to return her with a nice thank you if all goes well.
If you want to be a man, just when she is alone, walk up to her and say "*name*, do you want to go out with me?" If you are upfront, and keep calm, there is a slim chance she will say no.
This is also not such great advice, the first part, any way.
NEVER have a friend ask her if she likes you, she'll honestly
see this as childish, and this may throw her off.
Just suck up your best will power, and ask. Remember: The worst she
can say is "no" and if she's already talking to you I doubt that (even if she does) she'll make a big deal.
(03-13-2011, 01:18 PM)Mocking Da Bird Wrote: [ -> ]It feels awkward posting this but:
I have this girl in my Spanish class. Idk if she slightly likes me or not, but I think I like her. When I say I "think" I like her, I mean I am not sure whether or not I am even good enough for her. I have some mixed feelings about her too. Anyway, we never hang out during our break/lunch but in Spanish, it seems like she cares about me somewhat. I am in middle school and I am 14, she is 13 or 14, i really never asked.
I have never asked a girl out in my life (REALLY pathetic) and I don't even know how to ask one out. So how do I? Thanks.
Also, she is really hyper (like 99% of the time). Also, I need to know when is the appropriate time to ask her out (like at lunch, after school, in class, etc.) Thank you for reading....
tl;dr How do I ask a girl out? and when is the appropriate time to ask her? I am in middle school, 8th grade at 14 years old. Thank you.....
um ive had more gf's then all my friends and I only asked one out
just because you dont ask isnt a bad thing
be funny in class and noticeable and crap
get her attention