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Take a bus, or ask a friend to drive you. That works for me.

Well I'm guessing she's your age and you're the same with her. I'd first meet her in personal and see how she actually is like, words can be deceiving and could be the truth for anyone. If you do find out and really like her, some "how" find a way to get that bond stronger so that you could be more often. Just when dating her don't bring your old girl friend in, because they're friends remember?

It seems like you two really have strong feelings for each other. If you do and you've been close (video chatting, texting, ect) then you shouldn't have any problems meeting in person. But it seems like she's nervous about meeting you by the way she never tries to make plans. Maybe you should just show up at her house and see how it goes. But you'd have to find her address first.

Destination is not a problem. It's, as you said, you're afraid of girls, and you know that. But don't worry about that, I know lot of guys who has the same problem as you do. It's only in your mind. The thing is, you really gotta relax and let go. Once you stand in front of the girl, try to be yourself and relax, don't think about what are you gonna say, just relax and let go, words will come by themselves. You just gotta be yourself, and if she likes you they way you are, then it's okay, you're in...but if she doesn't, then don't date her, because if you want to date her even if she doesn't like who you are, then it would mean that you should change yourself, and don't ever do that because of no one, especially not because of some girl, no matter how pretty she is !

You have to realize that it's not like she's in another town/city. You have to clear up your schedule and try and make a time that would suit her and you. Ask her what times she is free, and what time she would like to meet up. Because, it seems as if you and her just randomly pick a time, and then it clashes with something else. If she really lives that far away from you, you have to plan it.

And bro, it's happened to me plenty of times. Just stay cool, when you finally meet her, it will be an amazing feeling that you finally did.

I honestly think if you lived in the same city, within 3years you would of had plenty chances to meet her. Just don't be scared of it, and remember - It's only one girl. If it doesn't go well, then so be it. But putting it off for longer and longer is just going to prolong the inevitable. Either that, or you just cut it off with her. Good luck nonetheless.

Isn't this screaming out "E-WHOREEEEEE!!!!" to anyone else?


But if "she's" legit, talk her into it

One thing you should remember while in or starting to fall in love is: do not fall in love too quick or too much. You can get hurt. But, that will teach you.

Does she love you? Spend more time getting to really know her.

Dont make excuses why you cant go and see her, actually make the effort. When she asks you say yeah ok. Considering the fact you have not met her in real life I am sure your friends or whoever would not mind if you do not see them for 1 day.