I love all the people talking about the age difference, as if it matters, they're both old enough to do what they want sexually, don't be such prudes. She being 14 would have hit puberty years ago so she is ready, any other constraints or restrictions is just backwards thinking IMO.
Not sure what the laws are like in the USA but here in Canada a 14 year old can legally sleep with anyone 19 years old or younger, once you're 16 age is no longer legally an issue.
How does that opinion relate to education in any way, shape or form?
If a girl wants to have sex, let her. He didn't rape her so who are you to say a girl isn't ready to have sex? How can you judge her mental state and capabilities? You can't. As I said, childish.
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He is childish, but what you're describing is more ignorant than anything.
Anyway, hopefully this gets closed soon.
Having sex that young will more than double the chances of the girl getting cervical cancer.
It could damage her inside as the body isn't fully developed at that stage.
But i'm sure you don't care less because your a guy... as I said, go get an education.
Well, just in case you guys didn't read all the posts (I don't blame you if you didn't, it's a lot), I got her an emergency contraceptive pill and she took it approximately 42-43 hours after unprotected intercourse, and I also had her take pure Vitamin C pills for 6 days.
She spent the night last night, and we didn't have unprotected sex, which I'm pretty damn proud of myself for.
About the whole age difference thing, I turn 18 in August, and she turns 15 in March. To be completely honest, I'm not trying to have anything serious with her, she's just happens to be fun. Don't get me wrong, I love this girl. I've known her for a while, and she always seems to care a lot, no matter what the fudge I do.
I don't know why I told you guys that, but it does feel weird at times being that different in age. By just reading, I'm sure you guys think it's weird, but I understand, because you guys don't know her, or me. I'm short for my age, and I don't look like I'm 17. She's mature for her age; she's more mature than her sister who's 18. I really like her, and my family likes her.
That was sooooo off-topic, but I thought I'd go more in-depth about the situation and my relationship with her. Ask any questions, and I'll be sure to answer.
EDIT: And about the age of consent thing and law issues, we live in USA, and the age of consent is 18, which I don't turn for another 7 months. Once I'm 18, and she's underage, I think it's considered statutory rape. Once I'm 18, I don't know what I'll do if I'm still with her, but 'til then, I'll just use protection.
(01-16-2011, 06:41 PM)Untouch Wrote: [ -> ]Cybr you should request the thread to be closed.
A lot of people clearly don't read the thread before posting.
Although just to add my view on the age range thing, I see nothing wrong with 5 years difference eitherway but not when you're really young.
You were silly to have unprotected sex let alone with a girl only 14. You do know that may cause her damage inside and make her more likely to get cancer.
(01-17-2011, 01:35 PM)Untouch Wrote: [ -> ]Having sex that young will more than double the chances of the girl getting cervical cancer.
It could damage her inside as the body isn't fully developed at that stage.
But i'm sure you don't care less because your a guy... as I said, go get an education.
Okay feel free to express your opinion, but when it gets to the point where you start spewing bullsh
it you just need to shut up and step back.
Having sex at 14 won't cause damage and it certainly won't increase the chance of cancer. I don't know where you got these facts from but they're completely wrong.
You also shouldn't make assumptions about how much someone cares based on their gender, that's considered sexism.
You're being very immature and it's obvious the one who needs an education is you.
(01-17-2011, 01:35 PM)Untouch Wrote: [ -> ]Having sex that young will more than double the chances of the girl getting cervical cancer.
It could damage her inside as the body isn't fully developed at that stage.
But i'm sure you don't care less because your a guy... as I said, go get an education.
You've said that more than a few times in this thread, but it doesn't increase the risk of cancer. Cancer and sex aren't even related to each other, and having sex while the girl is at that age won't cause cancer. Do some more research on how cancer is started.
It can only start from the other person having an infection like HPV, but that doesn't mean unsafe sex causes the risk of cancer to increase by itself.
Thanks guys, I figured that was BS, read his profile, lol, 19 studying computer classes and he tells me to get an education ^.^, kids these days.
Anyways Cybr good to hear crap worked out, you'll know you're in the clear for sure when she gets her period then it's smooth sailing from there, pretty sure you learned the lesson to be learned here eh?
Dam you guys really do have a bad education then.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/articl...ancer.html
That was the first link when I typed it in google...
Swat Runs Train I clearly have a better education than you. I've gone to the best primary school, grammer school and university in my country. I have got straight A's in all my subjects.
I won't continue this after this post as you're clearly to immature to look at the facts.
Tell your parents that you have made a mistake. They will be less mad if you tell them now other than hide it until it's too late. They know what's best. I'm sure they can get the pills for her and arrange something with her parents to keep it private.
(01-18-2011, 12:48 PM)Untouch Wrote: [ -> ]Dam you guys really do have a bad education then.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/articl...ancer.html
That was the first link when I typed it in google...
Swat Runs Train I clearly have a better education than you. I've gone to the best primary school, grammer school and university in my country. I have got straight A's in all my subjects.
I won't continue this after this post as you're clearly to immature to look at the facts.
So because we don't read some random British medical journal we are uneducated, you're ignorance astounds me.
You're right, you clearly do have a better education than me, after all you went to the best GRAMMER school, yet you can't even spell grammar correctly, what a joke. I'm done feeding the retarded troll.
Grow up and get over yourself, your attempt to sound superior when the only secondary education you have is half a year of university for computer related materials is laughable.