fudge Dude, Make you own opportunity, don't wait for it, jump in feet first. What's the worst thing that could happen? She says "No" well so what, that isn't the last thing, I dated a girl in High-school who said "No" first, but I just kept hanging out with her, talking to her, and just being a good friends, and whaddya know, she asked me out! So go for it dude, don't wait!
alright here is some real advice. be more direct and have more confident posture(forget that alpha male bullshit just be confident) find a girl you like(who is single) get her talking(if a girl likes u this shouldn't be hard) drop some positive info about yourself any skills and passions you have or that you like hacking etc(only if white hat otherwise lips shut
remember to always end the conversation on your terms and leave before she has to go. End the conversation with a little touch(arm, hug etc) repeat 3 times and on the 4 time as you leave ask her is she would like to hang out sometime she'll say sure and just say you'll text her. then set things up and bam your on a date.
okay so now your on your date okay best to get them to chill out at your place watch a movie on your computer(good excuse to sit on your bed eh
on you may not even get to the movie they might just blah blah blah for a while when finally there is a silence in the conversation kiss her and keep things moving from there okay its hard to get laid on the first date if she says no you have to respect her but be a littel mad about it so she knows you want more and you'll get laid on the 2nd or 3rd date(otherwise you'll be her make out buddy for a year)
and don't forget to enjoy sex with her and if it feels special that's because it is special, good luck bro;)
(12-21-2010, 10:52 PM)Buzz Lightyear Wrote: [ -> ]Just become friends with people first. I don't really "like" anyone right now. I have lots of pretty friends that are girls. I just want to keep it like that- friends. If I decide to date one of them, I would let it come naturally, not try to force it.
100% Agreed. Plus, I can't stand girls my age, so it's quite hard to be even just friends. They are people I can laugh with, but not those I can rely on.
Maybe you're waiting too long and that is what makes the chance slip away? If you see a girl you think you may be interested in, go talk to her casually and immediately. Ask her about things like what she likes to do and what music she's into. Try not to make it all about you, because girls like having a lot of attention so the more you give her, the more she'll likely retain her interest.
As for losing the chance to talk to them, don't hesitate. Be confident and approach them right away rather than wait for them to talk to you; females will usually wait for the male to make the move in these types of situations. If you're not confident, I'll provide a link to some confidence building things you can do that may also prove to be helpful to you.
Confidence boosting~
Remember, just relax and have fun. Girls are just girls, we're not going to rip your heart out and eat it. ;D
My advice is not to wait, but to go and make friends with a group of girls.
I was in your situation, kinda', and so I started sitting with a group of 6-7 girls most days at school and since then I've had no troubles at all - Girls come to me as they see I can get on with a load of girls.
..I have been asked if I'm gay though |:
GL
Try to talk to them, or walk over to them with your friends, then you get more selfconfidence.
(12-21-2010, 10:51 PM)Saint Michael Wrote: [ -> ]I have waited and waited all the opportunity's i get to talk to girls get messed up, a little help?
Assert yourself. Talk to some girls and see what happens.
Just be yourself and get to know people.
(12-22-2010, 06:15 AM)Frostbite Wrote: [ -> ]Maybe you're waiting too long and that is what makes the chance slip away? If you see a girl you think you may be interested in, go talk to her casually and immediately. Ask her about things like what she likes to do and what music she's into. Try not to make it all about you, because girls like having a lot of attention so the more you give her, the more she'll likely retain her interest.
As for losing the chance to talk to them, don't hesitate. Be confident and approach them right away rather than wait for them to talk to you; females will usually wait for the male to make the move in these types of situations. If you're not confident, I'll provide a link to some confidence building things you can do that may also prove to be helpful to you.
Confidence boosting~
Remember, just relax and have fun. Girls are just girls, we're not going to rip your heart out and eat it. ;D
I read other threads on relationship advise and you posted AMAZING advise, now i realise why it's so good, you're a GIRL!
Great advise, keep it up.
(12-24-2010, 05:36 PM)VenoM Wrote: [ -> ]I read other threads on relationship advise and you posted AMAZING advise, now i realise why it's so good, you're a GIRL!
Great advise, keep it up.
Thanks! I want to share what I know and my experience with people because usually it's guys giving the advice most of the time when men usually have no idea what's going on through a girls head. XD