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Really it doesn't matter if you have or haven't !

(12-09-2010, 02:35 AM)null_trace18 Wrote: [ -> ]Dude, seriously? Chill out, there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. You know how many people wish they were in your position? Why does everyone think that as soon as they lose their virginity, they all of sudden move up in this world. Nothing changes other than the fact that you just gave your virginity away to someone who you probably won't spend the rest of your life with and IMO thats just retarded. I'm not saying it's necessarily bad to lose your virginity (to each his own), but do not lose your virginity just because you think you're a little old to not have lost your virginity yet. Not to mention, you're risking a lot when you're fking someone because there are many STDs out there which do a lot worse than just give you a rash. Stay clean and save it for your love. You won't regret it because it will be that much more special to you and her.

I get what you're saying so I'll rephrase my concern. Rather than being worried about not having had sex thus far, I'm worried about not having a girlfriend yet.

So what? Is there anything bad in being a virgin? I AM a viring, I dont see anything wrong with it, and I dont want to lose my virginity with any random person I see on the road, I want it to be special...

I used to be just like you OP. I then lost my virginity at age 17 and I'm 18 now. I really wish I could have kept it for "someone special" as cliche as that sounds. You'll understand once you get it over and done with and it's not that great or something. Mine came totally unexpected, so here's to hoping

Well if you really want to, try finding some girls you like. Get their numbers, and talk.
After a while, you'll know which ones you have a shot at. And you can work it from there.

How old are you, by the way if ur over 25+ thats respect lol.

I'm 16 and I am still a virgin. I have only had 1 girlfriend. Only kissed and cuddled.

My only advice would be, just let it happen when it does. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. I know that's not what you wanted to hear, but that's really all that I can think of to help you in this situation.

I would say the best thing to do is save your virginity for that very special girl, it makes them feel as though you care for them more if you didn't throw it away before you found them.

Go clubbing find a nice girl.
Not a slut or a prostitue .
Start seeing each other wait a few months then ask her if she wants to make out with you .
I'm 14 i'v lost my vaginty but its not the biggest achivement of my life i have to say.

Well im only 13 but maybe this will help.
I used to be exactly like you, i made jokes and everyone laugh but i could never get a girl. Then a good friend of mine about a year ago told me how the girls think im just a clown and i should stop trying hard to make people laugh (It didnt feel like i was trying hard though.) So i stopped and for about 7 months i stopped being the "Funny-guy" and sometime before that there was a new joke-ster. So now im still far from popular but i can really talk to girls and hang out with them. The point is, even if you try or even look like your trying to be funny girls wont take you seriously (at least in my school they don't.)

My suggestion would be to be funny (but not a wise guy) on a date or something.

Hope my post helped

EDIT: Worry about school not about losing your virginity. If you have self respect, others will have respect for you.