(12-22-2010, 07:21 AM)Frostbite Wrote: [ -> ]My only other bit of advice, seeing you have this great grasp on the situation already, is to find someone else. Someone you can fall in love with and have meaningful sex with, rather than just sleep around for the enjoyment like so many people do. Sex is better when it's with someone you can constantly share your life with and it's someone you fully and completely love. Stay friends with this girl but I think you should tell her that you can be nothing more than that, just friends.
I hate to sound like a bitch or anything, but her cheating on her boyfriend with you just because she knew it wouldn't last long and she had a previous crush on you is pretty fudged up. It's like taking a car out for a test ride and deciding you don't like it, so you stick with the car you have until it's dead, and when it dies, you get another one rather than the one you've already driven.
Yeah bro, I hear that. I actually saw this pretty cute girl at the Gym a few days ago. I might see what I can make out of that lol.
Just don't manipulate her. Let her like you, on her own. Best of luck, and if you need any other advice, feel free to pm me or whatever. I'll help you all I can.
Besides, you seem like a pretty chill dude. I don't see how girls wouldn't like you, anyways.
(12-22-2010, 07:25 AM)Frostbite Wrote: [ -> ]Just don't manipulate her. Let her like you, on her own. Best of luck, and if you need any other advice, feel free to pm me or whatever. I'll help you all I can.
Besides, you seem like a pretty chill dude. I don't see how girls wouldn't like you, anyways.
You mean manipulate the girl at the Gym? I'm not in that mindset when I'm at the Gym lol. I noticed her looking at me a few times, I'm not 100% on what that was about, it could have been a WTF look for all I know lol.
But we'll see. I'm still cautious, so I'll probably just observe her for a bit. God that makes me sound like a stalker.
LOL! No, that's actually a good thing. See how she relates to the people around her. It'll give you a idea of personality, really. Just don't be like OPENLY STARING or anything like that, lol.
(12-22-2010, 07:30 AM)Frostbite Wrote: [ -> ]LOL! No, that's actually a good thing. See how she relates to the people around her. It'll give you a idea of personality, really. Just don't be like OPENLY STARING or anything like that, lol.
Yeah, I can imagine what she'd think if she turned around to see me doing this 0_0 at her. That'd freak me out lol. We'll see, I was there with a personal trainer and she went to pick up my progress sheet but picked up the girls and said "That's not yours, that's Georgia's." So I already know her name, or atleast 90% sure.
AH good, a starting point. Definitely something to have there. Do you know how to go about starting a conversation with her or is it too soon for that?
Do you have msn or anything, so we can keep talking without being spamheads?
(12-22-2010, 07:49 AM)Frostbite Wrote: [ -> ]AH good, a starting point. Definitely something to have there. Do you know how to go about starting a conversation with her or is it too soon for that?
Do you have msn or anything, so we can keep talking without being spamheads?
This isn't spamming lol. It's still somewhat on topic.
I have an idea of where to start. It'll probably go something like.
Me: Hi, You wouldn't happen to know what time it is would you?
Girl: Ah yeah it's 10:30. Just so you know, there's a clock on the wall over there.
Me: Ah, I didn't see that lol, thanks though. Do you come here often?
Then go from there. Seems like a solid starting place. If she's into me she'll keep the conversation going. If she isn't, she'll say how often she comes and leave me nothing to follow up with.
good point.
That seems like an excellent place to start, actually!
From the way I see it. This girl is a whore. She just seems to enjoy having sex. Just because she hasn't had sex with you doesn't mean she won't. Have you tried getting her to have sex with you? Like have you come onto her in that way? I haven't seen you mention anything much about your efforts in the situation here. If you wait for her to make the first move you'll probably never have sex with her.
Also about the nocturnal thing. I was this way last summer and I understand he doing your own thing, thing. It's so much more chill and relaxing at night. No one to harass you to do petty things. I usually went to bed at 6am and woke up anywhere from 3- 5pm. Then stayed up till 6 am - 9am again.
Youre trying to manipulate what?