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Well...Here it goes.
#11
(03-23-2010, 05:50 AM)Elektrisk Wrote: OK, here's my advice:

No one, as far as I know, is cursed to obesity. Unless you have some rare disease that makes you perpetually fat, you're practically choosing not to do something about it. You don't really have the right to complain about it if you can do something about. So, I suggest you start hitting the gym. You'll gain a lot of self-confidence, and it sounds like you could use it. Maybe I don't understand what it's like, because I'm naturally scrawny, but why don't I compare it this way? Some people are naturally muscular. I'm not. I want to be. Therefore, I hit the gym. It's the same as you. Some people are naturally skinny. You're not. You want to be (I assume?). So, you should hit the gym.

About the girl.. I'm sorry to say, but I doubt she was ever into you. She told you she "didn't want to be hurt anymore" as an excuse because she wasn't mature enough to tell you outright that she didn't want to be with you. The reason she got a boyfriend one week later or whatever is because she actually liked him. I know that must be a kick in the groin, but it wouldn't've been so bad if you had seen through her lie.

I suggest you not waste your time trying to get with her. Maybe you don't have much experience with girls, but trust me, there're hundreds out there. There're 6 billion people on this Earth, yet you're getting hung up over one? She doesn't sound like she wants you. Bugging her further will just annoy her. Why go through such arduous work just to hear the word 'no'? Find someone that WANTS to be with you.

Thank you, Cold hard truth, about sometime someone gave it to me and not sugar coated it.
#12
dont worry Dude
If you are willing to join SF Webmasters.
#13
I do not think people being overweight should be made fun of, they should just accepted as themselves, I think it's cool that you found a high school like that man.
#14
Hmm looks like a pretty bad life... Glad you could vent though...
I grew up on the larger side but I wouldn't say I'm obese yet. I'm 16, 172lbs, 6ft tall so I'm obviously not a small person. But I hope your life works out with this girl.
#15
I read half of it and i just want to say Good Luck. That is all.
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#16
Sounds like things have been tough. Women are confusing, they say one thing and mean another. Just get out there, try talking to some other women
#17
Show her your love emotionally and with gestures unlike once you showed her when you guys would hang out as "friends".
#18
Wow, that's harsh to hear.

Sorry man, things will get better, trust me, you'll see.
#19
Some people cant see through the outside image of a person, into the personality. If this girl cant see through your obesity, I wouldnt recommend chasing after her. Also, as mentioned by Elektrisk, when she said "i didnt want to hurt anyone" she is just making up excuses because she cant tell you outright she dosnt want to be with you.

Your probably better off without her.
#20
ignore the bullies, go after your girl you have nothing to loose. im sorry this happend


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