I'm being harassed

[Death Trap™]

That guy must have fallen for you and he wants to have you. I must say he is crossing the fine line between harassment. I think you should file a report of him at a local police department for reassurance and a restraining order to be on the safe side. It seems talking to him doesn't do anything as he "constantly" see himself with you no matter what the situation is. You should also tell family and friends who are close to you that they might know of the situation and be alert to help you. Since you work with him, you should ask your boyfriend/guy friends to drop and pick you from work for protection. It is better than being by yourself. You can also talk to high up at work if he harass you at work. You have to be strong and tell him off to get out of your business. On the other hand, I hope he gets the picture clearer that you mean what you said. Problem is I hope it doesn't provoke him.

[Iris721]

That guy must have fallen for you and he wants to have you. I must say he is crossing the fine line between harassment. I think you should file a report of him at a local police department for reassurance and a restraining order to be on the safe side. It seems talking to him doesn't do anything as he "constantly" see himself with you no matter what the situation is. You should also tell family and friends who are close to you that they might know of the situation and be alert to help you. Since you work with him, you should ask your boyfriend/guy friends to drop and pick you from work for protection. It is better than being by yourself. You can also talk to high up at work if he harass you at work. You have to be strong and tell him off to get out of your business. On the other hand, I hope he gets the picture clearer that you mean what you said. Problem is I hope it doesn't provoke him.

I'm terrified of this provoking him, but I'm about to go to the police station to file a report and they are going to phone him up to warn him.

Everyone says he's going to flip. My boyfriend, family and friends know what's going on. But I can't help feeling like its all my fault. I'm too nice to people. I make friends too quickly. I've had lots of male friends in the past, I lived with 3 for a year! I've never had a problem as they take on the role as a brother figure and look out for me. This is what he did and lied to me and said he saw me as just a friend so I was led on by him to think I had a good friend, which in turn looked like I led him on!

I don't actually work with him. I work in a bar in town which he socialises at. I've told my boss and he said he won't be allowed in the bar again if I go to the police. Which is good, but it also means he might find other ways of trying to see me.

I'm literally terrified. I couldn't sleep for ages last night thinking the worst. I'm worried this is going to turn into one of these tragic stories you hear about someone getting murdered. I don't want anyone close to me getting hurt. I feel like such a liability!