11-11-2015, 02:38 AM
It's important not to bottle up your feelings and talk to someone. You really don't have to go through this alone... Legality is one question, yes, but a completely another one is how it may affect your relationship with your family and society. Your relationship with your counsin seems already very deep; and it's not impossible, but a bit complicated... Thus I suggest thinking about what you want and first talking with her about it - both the legality question and how it may affect each of you, and if you decide to go for it, slowly prepare your family for this. I'm sorry for this is probably not very helpful... However, if you ever feel in the crisis and immediately need to talk to someone and relieve the storm inside you, you can do it on http://www.7cupsoftea.com/12007239. You can chat completely anonymously and confidentialy on this website with a trained active listener, who will not judge you and try to help. It's free and no registration needed. I hope things get better for you. Stay strong!