09-26-2013, 10:36 PM
Hello there. I can sense your pain. I have been in love, too, and it can really be something else. It can feel like extremely wonderful feelings and it can hurt like anything. I remember my first time; when it did not work out, I felt like I had lost the most beautiful thing in the world.
I am still here. I even gave it up because for me it's much more peaceful living without it.
No advice, just letting you know that it's okay either way---you can live with it or without it.
Anway, I also like the Houdini thing. I went thru a lot of pain, myself, before I realized my own mental blocks. I did not know, for such a long long time that I could be in charge of my own well-being.
Yes, it can seem like a woman (or a man) is our everything; if love did not feel that way, our species would not survive; this is a very very powerful drive, falling in love.
In reality, we determine our own happiness and destiny, no one else does.
You will be all right. Just hang on for another day, another night. You will be all right. I had to do this, too. And give myself more time to heal.
Carol
I am still here. I even gave it up because for me it's much more peaceful living without it.
No advice, just letting you know that it's okay either way---you can live with it or without it.
Anway, I also like the Houdini thing. I went thru a lot of pain, myself, before I realized my own mental blocks. I did not know, for such a long long time that I could be in charge of my own well-being.
Yes, it can seem like a woman (or a man) is our everything; if love did not feel that way, our species would not survive; this is a very very powerful drive, falling in love.
In reality, we determine our own happiness and destiny, no one else does.
You will be all right. Just hang on for another day, another night. You will be all right. I had to do this, too. And give myself more time to heal.
Carol