01-14-2014, 01:44 AM
You are a very caring mother if anything. I would say call her sometimes to tell her that you care about her and that you are always there for her. Tell her to call you anytime she needs you. There has to be times in her childhood that she believed that you loved her. Remind her of those memories. Send her her favorite snack or flower to remind her that you cared for her. And that if anything happened. you would be her shelter. I said these because this was what my parents did for me. I hated them so much and they did that for me. Unconditionally. I don't know how I would have went through the tunnel without all of that. I was in some seriously bad place. I hope that you and your daughter can come out from that as well.