Long story short, I moved to a new state and started at a new high school. I met this girl, liked her, so we started talking. Things were great, we talked a lot... She would flirt a little with me at school by doing little things like unzipping my bag, kicking it, pushing and shoving me and silly things like that, but after awhile she started acting different... She wouldn't really talk to me and when she did, she never seemed excited or happy like she was before. Because of this, I ended up just coming clean and telling her I liked her and it didn't really play out that well.
We didn't talk for an entire month until last night she sent me a text saying, "Hey... I understand if you don't want to talk to me." I basically told her the reason I haven't made an effort to talk to her in such a long time is because it seemed like she didn't want to talk to me. She then said she thought it would be awkward if we talked and I asked her if she thought it would be awkward because I told her I liked her. Yes was the answer, so I said that if she didn't like me like that, it was fine, I'd be alright, but that didn't mean I didn't want to be friends with her and still talk because she was actually someone I enjoyed talking to. At the end of that text I said but if she didn't want to be friends, then to just tell me so I'd know. Several minutes later I received a text just saying, "Let's be friends." I played it off like I was fine with that but I'm actually really disappointed.
So, after typing this all out, I think it's pretty clear in my mind that there's no use and I should move on, but hey, I'm no expert when it comes to relationships and things, so I'm asking you guys, do you think it's pointless for me to even try to go for her anymore? Should I just be friends with her and move on in hopes of finding someone else I actually like in this freaking messed up state I do not want to call home?
Let me know...
We didn't talk for an entire month until last night she sent me a text saying, "Hey... I understand if you don't want to talk to me." I basically told her the reason I haven't made an effort to talk to her in such a long time is because it seemed like she didn't want to talk to me. She then said she thought it would be awkward if we talked and I asked her if she thought it would be awkward because I told her I liked her. Yes was the answer, so I said that if she didn't like me like that, it was fine, I'd be alright, but that didn't mean I didn't want to be friends with her and still talk because she was actually someone I enjoyed talking to. At the end of that text I said but if she didn't want to be friends, then to just tell me so I'd know. Several minutes later I received a text just saying, "Let's be friends." I played it off like I was fine with that but I'm actually really disappointed.
So, after typing this all out, I think it's pretty clear in my mind that there's no use and I should move on, but hey, I'm no expert when it comes to relationships and things, so I'm asking you guys, do you think it's pointless for me to even try to go for her anymore? Should I just be friends with her and move on in hopes of finding someone else I actually like in this freaking messed up state I do not want to call home?
Let me know...