Do one thing!! Xplain it to her in a gentle manner that hw u hv n-joyd ur tym with her bt its tym to move on nw. I think u shud move out nw!! Else she will believe that u feel for her in terms of love!!
And don't be harsh!! if she is cutting herself then she may be serious abt u. An insensitive attitude may aggravate her. Try to talk to one of her close friends who may help her cope with ur loss-mayb some girlfrnd of hers.She will xplain to her the situation according to her nature!!
And next tym u enter into a relationship. make it clear that u want a no-strings attached relationship!!better not to mislead other ppl!!
If she has a sister, talk to her !! tell her to help her!! right nw she needs ppl around her lyk her family n friends so that she cn concentrate elsewhere.these things will divert her attention from u & will save u from a messy break -up!!
Try to hook her up with some other friend of yours. Encourage her to spend time outside. to go out with her friends. The more she stays at home, the more she will feel neglected , the more she will mop & then her depression may increase. She is feeling neglected & wants u to pay attention to her. I knw u don't love her so u dnt need to spend time with her but try to get her some attention from her friends.
Do tell me wat happened!!
And don't be harsh!! if she is cutting herself then she may be serious abt u. An insensitive attitude may aggravate her. Try to talk to one of her close friends who may help her cope with ur loss-mayb some girlfrnd of hers.She will xplain to her the situation according to her nature!!
And next tym u enter into a relationship. make it clear that u want a no-strings attached relationship!!better not to mislead other ppl!!
If she has a sister, talk to her !! tell her to help her!! right nw she needs ppl around her lyk her family n friends so that she cn concentrate elsewhere.these things will divert her attention from u & will save u from a messy break -up!!
Try to hook her up with some other friend of yours. Encourage her to spend time outside. to go out with her friends. The more she stays at home, the more she will feel neglected , the more she will mop & then her depression may increase. She is feeling neglected & wants u to pay attention to her. I knw u don't love her so u dnt need to spend time with her but try to get her some attention from her friends.
Do tell me wat happened!!