03-24-2011, 09:46 PM
Alright so my little sister is going through some, I guess huge, issues right now. I'm horrible at girl advice, so I told her to ask my girlfriend for help, which didn't work out either, so I decided to post it here.
Her problem;
Well she's a 7th grader right now, and she'll be in the 8th grade next year, last year before high school. She has 2 best friends, I guess you can call one of them.
The first friend is nice to her, and treats her like a friend. She talks about her, but then she ends up kidding about it or saying sorry. She's more mature, I guess you can say, then the other girl and knows when to say sorry for her mistakes. But she has to move to Africa, or Egypt since her dad is in the Navy. She's moving around the end of the year.
The second friend is a horrible friend. She leeches off all of my sister's friends, has like 18 guys liking her and she rejects them all even if she does like them and then brags about them in my sister and her other friend's faces, she talks about my sister and her other friend A LOT and doesn't seem to say sorry or say she was joking, and she has to have all attention on her. Like when she got a hair cut, she'd go around telling people, "How come people didn't notice my hair?" And act like she's a popular blond girl. And the sad part is, is that she's going to the same high school as my sister, and she's staying with her. ~ I'd call her a two faced bitch.
My sister has tons of other friends, and they know all about the two faced bitch, but they're going to a different high school and can't transfer.
She doesn't know what she's going to do. She sits in her room and cries, and it actually hurts to see and hear her crying from that as an older brother. I want to help her, but I can't really do anything about it. I can beat her up I guess, but I mean it's a girl. I can talk to her parents, but they wouldn't care because the, "two faced bitch", would tell her parents the opposite.
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A big part of the story;
The two faced bitch told the GOOD friend that my sister had said she didn't like her for some reasons.
The next day, the two faced bitch told my sister that the GOOD friend had said some stuff about her.
But here's the catch, the two faced bitch said that about both of them and blamed it on one another.
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How can I help my sister :/?
Her problem;
Well she's a 7th grader right now, and she'll be in the 8th grade next year, last year before high school. She has 2 best friends, I guess you can call one of them.
The first friend is nice to her, and treats her like a friend. She talks about her, but then she ends up kidding about it or saying sorry. She's more mature, I guess you can say, then the other girl and knows when to say sorry for her mistakes. But she has to move to Africa, or Egypt since her dad is in the Navy. She's moving around the end of the year.
The second friend is a horrible friend. She leeches off all of my sister's friends, has like 18 guys liking her and she rejects them all even if she does like them and then brags about them in my sister and her other friend's faces, she talks about my sister and her other friend A LOT and doesn't seem to say sorry or say she was joking, and she has to have all attention on her. Like when she got a hair cut, she'd go around telling people, "How come people didn't notice my hair?" And act like she's a popular blond girl. And the sad part is, is that she's going to the same high school as my sister, and she's staying with her. ~ I'd call her a two faced bitch.
My sister has tons of other friends, and they know all about the two faced bitch, but they're going to a different high school and can't transfer.
She doesn't know what she's going to do. She sits in her room and cries, and it actually hurts to see and hear her crying from that as an older brother. I want to help her, but I can't really do anything about it. I can beat her up I guess, but I mean it's a girl. I can talk to her parents, but they wouldn't care because the, "two faced bitch", would tell her parents the opposite.
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A big part of the story;
The two faced bitch told the GOOD friend that my sister had said she didn't like her for some reasons.
The next day, the two faced bitch told my sister that the GOOD friend had said some stuff about her.
But here's the catch, the two faced bitch said that about both of them and blamed it on one another.
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How can I help my sister :/?