02-05-2014, 11:50 PM
(02-05-2014, 11:28 PM)Katsamess Wrote:(02-05-2014, 03:53 AM)Clark Wrote: If I'm reading this right (and I may not be, it's 3 am and I'm very tired) Your friend did the right thing, you see she was just trying to warn your daughter about the man she's with. If this man attacked your younger daughter as well, then this is no longer a family issue. You should threaten to notify the police and tell your son in law that this a serious issue. You've done nothing wrong, and I can't imagine being in your shoes right now. If you need to talk more about this, feel free to contact me. Otherwise, I wish you the best of luck. I'm not sure of any online resources that could help you, but you can aways share your thoughts with SF.
Best wishes.
Thanks so much for listening and understanding. I had a very heartfelt talk with my friend and she swears on a stack of Bibles that she did not say anything. I believe her. The only people left to mistrust would be two of my sisters. He has sworn to get the family against me...calling me insane. I am trying to save up for a polygraph test but they are not cheap. I want to show my daughter that her husband has major issues. Talks like an infant when he is drunk, and she thinks it's cute. It's creepy. I don't think he was intending on rape, at all. He just gets drunk and does sick stuff. My daughter when she finally heard the truth out of me, said I was insane, and narcissistic. Anyone that knows me knows that couldn't be farther from the truth. I hate looking in the mirror...I have never had a good outlook of myself. I wouldn't make this stuff up. I really appreciate your response, and will continue to keep coming here. It feels good to tell someone after all these years. :-)
I'm glad you're starting to feel better. If I were you, I would just have a one on one conversation with your daughter telling her that you're not making this up, and that you only want what's best for her. If she's mature enough to hear you out, then you can start to make some progress. Tell her everything you've told SF, except make sure it's just you and her. Don't judge her or our her down when she says anything, just listen to her, and tell her everything.