01-03-2012, 07:42 PM
Hi Hendrix,
Welcome to Support Forums. It sounds as though you're getting closer to a state of depression. Something we don't want. What I'd recommend is to find one thing you enjoy most in life and stick to it. If it's your music, work hard on it, because once you're out of school, it might get you somewhere. There's no use in forgetting about your social life when in school either. You've still got a few years left and it'll be a living hell if you go on like this. I know at times you're not going to feel motivated to go out with mates, but try to make an effort. It may be a pain in the ass getting there, but you'll enjoy yourself and feel a lot less stressed because you're making an effort socially. As for girls, they'll come. Don't get too up in arms about that at the moment, focus more on your mates and establishing some more accepted social patterns.
I don't know if anything I've said will help. It just seems that you're being a little lazy. Find motivation in your passions and make an effort to get out. Things will improve.
Welcome to Support Forums. It sounds as though you're getting closer to a state of depression. Something we don't want. What I'd recommend is to find one thing you enjoy most in life and stick to it. If it's your music, work hard on it, because once you're out of school, it might get you somewhere. There's no use in forgetting about your social life when in school either. You've still got a few years left and it'll be a living hell if you go on like this. I know at times you're not going to feel motivated to go out with mates, but try to make an effort. It may be a pain in the ass getting there, but you'll enjoy yourself and feel a lot less stressed because you're making an effort socially. As for girls, they'll come. Don't get too up in arms about that at the moment, focus more on your mates and establishing some more accepted social patterns.
I don't know if anything I've said will help. It just seems that you're being a little lazy. Find motivation in your passions and make an effort to get out. Things will improve.