09-19-2011, 08:19 PM
(09-19-2011, 07:45 PM)haphazard Wrote: smoke and drink with her, she is self medicating with the drugs which isnt necasarily a bad thign
do it with her, if being hi/drunk is how she likes to feel, then feel how she feels. it will make communication easier being in her state of mind too. I started drinking/smoking at 14 too and its not as bad/severe as people make it. a couple of beers/shots wont kill you and neither will a bongfull or a joint, getting fudged up with her will also allow you to hang out with her more, she will be WAY more open.
if I were you I would do it. she is self medicating and their isnt really anything wrong with that, espeacially in her fudged up situation.
a friend did this to me, once her parents know that the child is drinking/smoking it starts a whole bunch of unnecasary drama related bullshit which is exactly what this chic doesnt need. she needs someone to be their
I don't mean about the drinking/smoking. What I mean is tell them about her depression.