03-29-2011, 09:12 PM
I appreciate it being hard to judge someone one has not met. In an odd way, i have seen him, there is some energy or attraction between us which I cannot put my finger on. i think sleepy trolley you may have also hit something on the head here. So he gets in my pants, feels like the winner and then is on his way. I too am confused about him saying he has little time. One of the oddest thing is, at the end of the conversation. He wrote that if i do not want to have sex with him, then he is ok with that as he will still like me and respect me. Or is this a way of just drawing me in by saying all the right things? it seems like he does not really like me, just sees me as a hot woman in his words to have a bang at on his terms. Alot of people think I am good looking, i find the heart of someone more important. I have a mind on me too and boy if i could just a guy who loves me for me, rather than just my looks and feels like he has won a trophy or something. Maybe a sign of him just being honesty that he wants sex is by not being bothered either way. i do not see why he needs my permission to get connected to someone else. Damn, i like the wrong man and feel lousy about it. Now he knows that i like him alot and i feel stupid about it. Please get me out of this confusion emotional stand point. I really have waited a long time to have someone intimate with me, just i want the right type of intimacy.