03-09-2011, 02:15 PM
(03-08-2011, 10:13 PM)Deltron Wrote: Are you seriously advising self-inflicting pain as a solution?
Sure, shooting yourself will lead to complete emotion loss. But that's what we're not trying to achieve here.
I ignored what he said about inflicting pain on myself. I know that isn't how to deal with things like this but I have found a few ways I am dealing with it quite well, actually.
Few things that seem to be working for me;
- Visiting her grave and paying my respect, putting new flowers down, etc.
- Getting close with her family
- Holding the good memories of our time together
- Knowing I will see her again eventually
They really helped and I suggest anyone who is feeling the same, to do some of those, if they don't work for you, search, there are ways out there.
"Don't treat life as a losing battle, but as an ongoing challenge."