01-20-2011, 11:07 PM
Do what you feel you should do. If you really want to experience sex, go ahead. If you can wait, don't do it.
Weight the PRO's and CON's of each situation.
Having the sex:
Pro's - Good feeling
- ...that's about it
Con's - Ruined 2 relationships now
- You lost your virginity to a "whore" (sorry if i offend you or her in any way)
- If you don't like it, it will stay with you, forever.
Waiting, resisting, leaving her:
Pro's - Stayed a virgin, girls like this if they are too.
- No bad memories if didn't enjoy the experience.
- Confidence to say YOU turned down a girl, instead of you getting turned down.
Con's - None really.
Weight the PRO's and CON's of each situation.
Having the sex:
Pro's - Good feeling
- ...that's about it
Con's - Ruined 2 relationships now
- You lost your virginity to a "whore" (sorry if i offend you or her in any way)
- If you don't like it, it will stay with you, forever.
Waiting, resisting, leaving her:
Pro's - Stayed a virgin, girls like this if they are too.
- No bad memories if didn't enjoy the experience.
- Confidence to say YOU turned down a girl, instead of you getting turned down.
Con's - None really.