12-08-2012, 03:49 AM
Hi guys,
I'm in a situation right now in a LDR ( long distance relationship), and I don't know what to do next, Its frustrating and I haven't slept properly in weeks because of it, so hear me out and let me know what you think I should do.
I've been going out with this girl for almost 6 months now, we've skyped everyday when we can, watched movies online, and played games together. Since thats all we can really do in a LDR. The first time around we talked and we were having a great time, I'd always open up with questions, conversation starters, and she would do the same vice versa.
I was really head over heels for this girl and i actually confessed to her at the start but she rejected me because she was having problems with her ex, who she considers her bestfriend now. So I didn't take it as a rejection, I just talked to her regularly everyday when I can, and we started to build something beyond friendship, and it got serious and I asked her again, well this time i flew out and see her in person. At that time I took the risk of showing up and knowing i could be rejected if i asked her agian if she would like to be my girlfriend. Well she told me she's the type to not show her emotions, and Id have to handle being with her knowing she still loved her ex. I told her that her ex was the past and i was the present and I'd show her that my love for her is more then her ex could of given her. From that we started to be more closer. Weeks passed and I'd send her flowers and i'd buy her stuff she wanted.
Heres where I get frustrated and having a headache. Passed few week, we'd skype for hours but she wouldn't talk to me at all, she would just do her usual thing, and when i brought up something to talk about, she would get angry at me, and start breaking out and close her laptop on me, and wouldn't talk to me until I called her to apologize. The arguments and fight has been everyday, and I love this girl so much, I don't want to upset her. There would be times where she would show more interest in talking with her ex bf then me, and they would send videos to each other on facebook. Did i mention she wouldn't want to put it out there in public that we were in a relationship. Recently I just feel that when i'm here she wouldn't put an effort to talk to me, and when I'm not around, she doesn't bother to check up on me, until i send her a message saying where i am. Am I being a fool for this girl? What should i do?
I'm in a situation right now in a LDR ( long distance relationship), and I don't know what to do next, Its frustrating and I haven't slept properly in weeks because of it, so hear me out and let me know what you think I should do.
I've been going out with this girl for almost 6 months now, we've skyped everyday when we can, watched movies online, and played games together. Since thats all we can really do in a LDR. The first time around we talked and we were having a great time, I'd always open up with questions, conversation starters, and she would do the same vice versa.
I was really head over heels for this girl and i actually confessed to her at the start but she rejected me because she was having problems with her ex, who she considers her bestfriend now. So I didn't take it as a rejection, I just talked to her regularly everyday when I can, and we started to build something beyond friendship, and it got serious and I asked her again, well this time i flew out and see her in person. At that time I took the risk of showing up and knowing i could be rejected if i asked her agian if she would like to be my girlfriend. Well she told me she's the type to not show her emotions, and Id have to handle being with her knowing she still loved her ex. I told her that her ex was the past and i was the present and I'd show her that my love for her is more then her ex could of given her. From that we started to be more closer. Weeks passed and I'd send her flowers and i'd buy her stuff she wanted.
Heres where I get frustrated and having a headache. Passed few week, we'd skype for hours but she wouldn't talk to me at all, she would just do her usual thing, and when i brought up something to talk about, she would get angry at me, and start breaking out and close her laptop on me, and wouldn't talk to me until I called her to apologize. The arguments and fight has been everyday, and I love this girl so much, I don't want to upset her. There would be times where she would show more interest in talking with her ex bf then me, and they would send videos to each other on facebook. Did i mention she wouldn't want to put it out there in public that we were in a relationship. Recently I just feel that when i'm here she wouldn't put an effort to talk to me, and when I'm not around, she doesn't bother to check up on me, until i send her a message saying where i am. Am I being a fool for this girl? What should i do?