My girlfriend and I have been going out for a couple months. We used to have sex at least four times a week, but a couple weeks ago we had a pregnancy scare. She was two weeks late. Since then I have been unable to get an erection for her.
I find her very attractive, but I just can't do it for some damn reason. My mind is VERY into it when we start making out, but my damn penis just won't get hard.
I need some advice on what I should do.
They don't show those male enhancement commercials for no reason you know lol
Thanks for trying Prosperity, but I am not looking for a pill. I am 20 years old and positive I do not have erectile dysfunction.
I am pretty sure it is psychological, and I am pretty sure once we fudge a good one out I will be good.
Anybody else have some advice?
Do you have a kink or fetish that you haven't explored with her yet? Seems like you just need something to "light the fire" again.
(01-27-2011, 08:48 AM)Swat Runs Train Wrote: [ -> ]Do you have a kink or fetish that you haven't explored with her yet? Seems like you just need something to "light the fire" again.
This seems quite true or try getting if big on porn, before you have sex with her. I mean, not at the same time tho, but just before alone, then go make out with her and if it works, it might work without porn again next time.
Maybe the scare gave you some kind of a mental block, that you need to pass.
I had that pregnant scare 2 times, but it did nothing to my D.
(01-27-2011, 06:05 PM)NekoChan Wrote: [ -> ]This seems quite true or try getting if big on porn, before you have sex with her. I mean, not at the same time tho, but just before alone, then go make out with her and if it works, it might work without porn again next time.
Maybe the scare gave you some kind of a mental block, that you need to pass.
I had that pregnant scare 2 times, but it did nothing to my D.
I am pretty sure it is sort of like the mental block thing. I don't think watching porn before will help though. I've talked to her and we are going ot try something new. Don't know what yet. We are thinking either watching a porn together or some sort of role play.
Any other ideas on what we could try?
It's a mental block, you're scared. If you're not prepared for a kid you shouldn't be having sex. eh?
You need to remind yourself that you love her and that even if she gets pregnant you would stick by her. Unless this is untrue. If untrue than I don't know how to help you there.
It is probably because sub consciously you are nervous about that happening.
(01-27-2011, 09:07 PM)Anonymous123 Wrote: [ -> ]I am pretty sure it is sort of like the mental block thing. I don't think watching porn before will help though. I've talked to her and we are going ot try something new. Don't know what yet. We are thinking either watching a porn together or some sort of role play.
Any other ideas on what we could try?
Porn would be my only idea right now, if that won't work.
Then its time to think something big.
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To see if you get an idea for something interesting from there.
~J4mmy