Why does my boyfriend lie to me? We live quite a ways a part, and there's just so much against him, yet he still lies. I've seen proof of the lies but he still denies it.
First, it was about porn. What if it escalates to something else? Like him full out cheating on me?
Maybe you should stop being so strict on him and give him a bit of space. If it escalates from there then I don't know.
if he is not honest to you than just ask him to have a serious chat.
Sit down with him and talk about the things he is doing lately. Tell him that he is telling you a lie and that you wont tolerate such a behaviuor.
Be a string girl. He is a boy ok, you love him okay but he has to be into you too. If he aint honest than i think he does not deserve you.
(12-07-2010, 05:51 AM)Frostbite Wrote: [ -> ]Why does my boyfriend lie to me? We live quite a ways a part, and there's just so much against him, yet he still lies. I've seen proof of the lies but he still denies it.
First, it was about porn. What if it escalates to something else? Like him full out cheating on me?
Take the time to talk to him, and do not make him feel like he will be punished if he tells you the truth. Reason with him, and let him feel bad. It will make him crack and start treating you with more respect. At least hopefully?
If not then, he was never meant to be with you. There is a saying, if you love something, let it go if it comes back, it was always yours, if it doesn't then it never was.
You all gave excellent advice, and I'll be taking it all with me next time I speak to him. :3 Thank you!
1 there is nothing wrong with porn especially when you guys live far apart or w.e
and about the lies.. we all lie don't we? but it's not always that we mean harm with our lies... so it basicly comes up to the question does he rly love you? if he does.. that's all you need.
Just bring up casually "You know, you can trust me, I tell you everything" It could get him to tell you more of the truth.
(12-07-2010, 04:07 PM)Extra Wrote: [ -> ]Just bring up casually "You know, you can trust me, I tell you everything" It could get him to tell you more of the truth.
This.
Tell him 'you know you can trust me with any thing or any problem.' Then stare into his eyes.
(12-07-2010, 05:41 PM)Orgasmic Wrote: [ -> ]This.
Tell him 'you know you can trust me with any thing or any problem.' Then stare into his eyes.
I feel so cool when people backup what I say
(12-07-2010, 06:04 PM)Extra Wrote: [ -> ]I feel so cool when people backup what I say
This.